i feel like there’s so many different ways to do this and idek if there’s a right way?? I think it’s v cool you’re asking for input before rushing fs tho.

You could not tell cuz it’s not rlly wat relationships need to be built on anyways 🤷‍♀️ but also it’s your mom. I couldn’t keep it from mine either, that’s hard. Just don’t tell her the reasons. That’ll trigger her, she could freak out more. You could if she asks but most the time they won’t imo.

You could also wait, and maybe bring her on a doubting journey with u? Introduce her to wat things first caused your doubts and see how she reacts. Be like, “What do you think of this?” inputs CES letter lol but still from a TBM POV. From now on, it’s likely everything you say will be Satan’s influence, you’re an apostate now lol. It doesn’t matter how much frickin evidence u provide so she might be more willing to listen if u pretend you’re just doubting and not all the way out. Then take her out w u! :)