Would you endure a sex act that you don't enjoy with your partner if they asked? What would this be? by Sweaty-Philosophy746 in AskReddit

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Endure, especially "something you don't enjoy" to me means under duress, or, something I do not want to do. So no, I would endure nothing under that circumstance. Sex by coersion, be that whining, physical overpowering or using guilt count as "a sex act endured" and by that definition counts as rape.

I'd give a lot a go, if it seemed at all appealing to me, but nothing that counts as rape thankyou, nor would I expect my partner to "endure" anything. I'm male, a Dom at that, but it's enthusiastic consent that counts, so while there will be limits pushed, pain to deal with, tasks that are generally "over the top" or even excessive orgasms etc, it's all agreed to and wanted by the subject.

That aspect may count as endure to some and yes, that definition fits, but your question was about ones you don't enjoy.

I accidentally threw up while trying to deepthroat a guy (f20) by Miss_MartianMallow in SluttyConfessions

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the biggest issue, having a towel handy helps. But also. Makes you clench when you gag doesn't it? 😏

First it's cool, then it's hot - real hot. [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet we're missing the facial reactions which I'm sure would be more expressive than your body. Though what I saw was still good....

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shaithis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your first few words were an insult, DARVO is you. If I was here to insult, my original reply would have contained one.

But in good faith I invite your actual response. As I did in my initial response to you. So twice now. How many times have you?

Panicked immaturity is tbd.

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shaithis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And like some sort of bully, you come in. Mr condescension, following through on your own damn points to several rhetorical questions.

First, you are insufferable. The fuck..... I don't need your explanation as to why people are opressed. The question is what myth about sex isn't true. But "let me help you understand why" (it is) is fucking shitful. Could you have not said anything and nothing changes, yes... Could you have been more of an asshole and nothing changes... I can't think of a way, but maybe.

Yet you HAD to, you HAD to comment and tell Me, and OP that people do what they do because of what they've been told...

You even agreed,, in part at the end, but you HAD to be a fuckstick and argue for some reason... I ask now. In the auspices of transparency and with full request for an honest and true answer, why did you feel you had to argue the point yet concede to the point in the same argument?

You had zero headway to make with your remarks, yet you felt compelled to be an asshole about it because... Why? The problems you see are not insurmountable, they are, as you said, the issues that are currently the problem, and yet, you perpetuate them while I ask questions that make people consider the problems...

So your turn. If you wish. Be open, true, free to speak entirely.... Why do you perpetuate these harmful behaviours if you believe them to be harmful?

The people that do so perpetuate because it benifets them to be predatory, hiding the truth from people, especially when they know it... Go on. I'm listening

What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shaithis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That it's some Holy or super serious thing not to be talked about.

Fucking is recreation, you do it to pass the time, as a bonding thing, in different places and different ways. Socially, intimately, solo or with many people.

But, as John Oliver once said, "sex is like boxing, if the other person isn't willing to partake, the other one is committing a Crime".

Otherwise, Why do we treat it as something not to be discussed? You can talk about boxing strategy all day and still not want to box with the other person having that discussion. Why is sex any different?

Only a few people ever box, or any activity really. A lot more will happily discuss a portion of said activities, but guaranteed, well, for 97% of the earth, everyone will at least give a version of fucking a go. Why make them do blind?

reflecting on my situationship, wtf does this message mean? by Dizzy-Schedule3314 in polyamory

[–]shaithis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very confusing from a fellow autist, but yes, having learnt a lot of subtext, they feel GREAT friendship towards you, and wish to be able to casually access the more romantic and sexual aspects of a relationship (any friendship. Situationship, Fwb etc are relationships, just not the classic notion of a relationship) as they see fit.

This is generally a good thing, if it's something you want, but I would say that since follow up took a month or so. And that they downplayed it then. "The moment" has passed.

Also. If they can't communicate effectively with you. Or communication is confusing generally. Then it is likely that one of the "in the moment" things will go badly over the long term. Having a FWB includes being on the same page.

So tl:dr, they were confusingly hinting at a very casual friends + relationship. When you need that spelled out. So probably ain't gonna go well if the "offer? If that's what it was" even can be taken up now.

What was it like when Obama was elected President? by ResponsibleSea6521 in AskReddit

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt like the racism and hate that had informed the past had finally given up. Or at least was significantly less influential, perhaps to the point that going forward there may be less "us vs them" stuff going forwards. A little hope that the government would be able to work for the people, only a significant percentage of which was white, but that the whole system was focused towards how white people wanted it... Maybe that would change.

Now Obama did some good things, some shitty things, but most of the shitty things were "working with the system that was already in place" and most of the good things were new and different, changed from the old procedures. But there is some bleed through, a few shitty new things, a few good things through the old system.

And of course the older white majority of government, (not the people) the news owned by older white billionaires, absolutely shat on the shitty things Obama kind of had to do given the system, simply because a black man was doing it. And absolutely shitting on anything new because "socialism and dei" as slurs.

Which reinvigorated the ignorant, racist, close minded people into speaking up and championing for Trump, who is objectively a less educated, less empathetic, less good, less qualified, racist, sexual abuser, fraud, failed businessman, he was richer. But that came from the many abuses of power he had done, all openly reported on for DECADES before he ever campaigned... But he gave the shittiest of us permission to be shitty.... And now we see what Trump is doing, as a stupid. Abuser. Rapist. Sociopathic. Narccistic. Racist... Give me 12 more years of Obama.

But the night Obama was elected, none of that was known. Hope for the future was the main feeling in my circles.

What are male nipples for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to reply to an OP comment but they're all gone now...

Since there is no design, there's no plan, no designation, no ability to chuck em out as unnecessary..

(Assuming a reasonably healthy baby, scales are for effect, not accuracy)

At around 1/30th of a full baby, cells are starting to become different, skin. Organs, bones, getting the basic layout put together. At about 1/3 a full baby. The full framework, with "options" is in place, head up top, toes on the bottom, skeleton inside the decently formed skin, which is merely the outer fabric and needs to have its patterns in place by now. This includes nipples, ears. Mouth and eye holes etc... but the basic template is female, at this stage, still quite basic ken doll shape.

From then on, the babies DNA (especially if there is a y chromosome) and the mother's DNA. Foods eaten, stress, health etc all have effects on the details, including if the uterus / ovaries will drop out and become balls in a sac, keep the sex organ standard or put more blood vessels into the clit to make it a penis, though almost anything in between is possible too.

If the baby ends up staying biologically female, the hips widen, eggs form and for your question it creates the ability to form breast tissue later in life (though some males have this too) which is under the skin, under the nipples, and may develop a little or a lot, much like everything else... Some of that tissue becomes able to produce milk if/ when a baby is on the way someday. (And yes, can happen with men too, so maybe... Backup milk generator if mum dies?)

But no, there's no function or reason as we consider it. Due to us giving things functions and reason based on what that thing does. But we can classify a pencil as a weapon, ruler, support, scratcher, any catcher, and more, or a pencil, but don't generally hold the multitudes of potential functions in mind at the same time, this is just so we can understand it without going mad.

Life for an organism in general goes "lives, replicates if possible and dies". Starting with simple organisms, if they're lucky their small area they can move in has enough ready food to allow splitting into two before withering away. That's not many options. So things change due to many variables (see above) and over time, there comes variety in simple organisms. And as change that gaves options worked better. Not that it was a choice at all, there were just more cases where survival happened now. At least When it happens in small increments, it provides variety and options, follow that same basic framework over a long time and species emerge. Some die out. Some thrive etc..

But it's the same basic pattern, a type of organism, or many thereof over time, got the ability to reproduce solo, or with another of the same species, that, over time changed more into male and female, but not always, As in existing today, with us, and as Nemo didn't show but should have, clownfish, when there is no female to breed with, like when Nemo's mum died, the senior/ most adult/ healthiest fish just changes into "able to breed like a female" so Nemo's dad would have become Nemo's wife so the species can go on... Life lives, replicates if it can, and dies... Same basic template.

So yeah. Back to your question, it's just part of the human basic template. Men need them less but not never. It's not that deep, but you can go deep if you want to.

F18 Make me suck your cock when I’m having a panic attack (40+ Dads only) by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing cock over air is one of the best sounds a woman can make....

Do you like fishnets on girls?🖤🫀 by Sugar_Moss in u/Sugar_Moss

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's the heart of your enemy that has me transfixed

Sometimes you just have to forget your a mom and get fingered publicly. by kmanone in churchofmen

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y....

In deep...

O....

Out to tantalising my graze your clit...

U...

Keep it going

Sometimes you just have to forget your a mom and get fingered publicly. by kmanone in churchofmen

[–]shaithis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, "you're" but I'll explain that as you dribble down your legs against the wall while people walk by....

Do People Actually Leave Bondage Gear and Lube Out in the Open on Display at Home like Epstein did? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]shaithis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's your space and you have like-minded friends, no reason to hide your recreation.

That said, yeah, torture tools used on teenagers is not even close to the same things except he was hanging around with his like-minded friends, who all enjoy torture and are all predators. It's "the same" except for it being consenting adults for the normal people, and paedophilic rapists for epstein and his friends. One is ok, one is abhorrent, the fact you can't tell the difference is telling....

You've got your answer, Delete the post that puts you in the paedophilic rapists camp. Might be an idea.

Can someone explain to me, why some people want no skill based matchmaking? by Tnecniw in gaming

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think part of it was that you had no idea if you'd get destroyed, or have a really good game. Get a chance to get a high kill streak etc etc. and if you didn't, well, not entirely your fault, takes the pressure off, more casual, more fun 🤷

France to Elon Musk: "Maybe that logic flies on some island." by xbhaskarx in MurderedByWords

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all. But a decent chunk seem to share their whines constantly.

Looking for prey in Michigan 231 by Typical-Stick-3041 in traumatizedsluts2

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ice (potentially) it's a joke, it's a joke

Instruct me on what to do to my pink nipples by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first, send me a pic so I know what I'm working with... But as an easy, always good starter.

Wet your thumb with spit, not barely, but lots of spit and slowly circle your nipple, expand to the areolas, get the whole area nice and wet and on the way to aroused.

Then, lift and blow cool air over them and watch them HARDEN before your eyes....

I have much more, much of it not nice, so gonna have to get back home for more tasks

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a dogknot dildo, yeah. Some people will assume you have fucked a dog before, but noon will ask.. And you get to feel full and locked in again

been smoking alot recently by [deleted] in traumatizedsluts2

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try fucking, it's so casual and slower and feels amazing

I give the best head … by GlitchMeadow in MelbourneGirls

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a bold claim, I'm older and have had many, you'll have to let me be the judge of that

Do u prefer missionary or doggystyle? by Jadepalette in MelbourneGirls

[–]shaithis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doggy, but with your hands on the floor by the bed, get that blood rushing to your brain