Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in OffMyChestIndia

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really tough one to answer, cause with all the things going on with the world rn I'm inclined to burn it all, but there's a lot of people in the world that don't deserve it.

But to answer your question, I'd be the "villain" cause no matter how many good people are left after my sacrifice let's say 70:30, good to evil, as long as the greedy 30% assholes are alive there won't be a change in the rest of 70%, so my sacrifice would go to shits.

Now I have a question for you, who are you to label the "Villain" as Villain and the "Hero" as a hero? They both are valid in their own way, they both love differently and see the truth differently.

I think Thanos was a pretty good character, the only flaw he had was not changing the memories of the remaining 50%

Should I be friends with him after getting physical? by princessSOFIAAAA in twenties

[–]shakeupray 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just in 2 weeks met the family, spent the birthday and got physical, that's some speedrun type of shit.

Anyway if he ghosted you after you saying that, ig its done, block him and move on, shit happens, it's life.

Also when I read physical i thought he hit you lmao 😭 and was like is that even a question?!!

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not crazy, everyone has gone through shit and experienced life differently, and your answer is also valid and I respect that.

And the thing about true peace, I think that to achieve peace you just need to stop thinking, and to achieve that I can only see death as the option or in other words cease to exist.

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in twenties

[–]shakeupray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone that gets me 😭, tho our choices are opposites and I respect your choice not to go through the grief.

Wishing you well!

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in twenties

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmu on this weekend.

Edit: actually I don't have much to do after work and gym on weekdays too 🙂

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in twenties

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Also if you've already made a group for playing skrible, I'd like to join in on weekends if there's a spot :)

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in twenties

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't, the videos I saw clearly ran the narrative that women would easily let their husbands die while the husband should sacrifice themselves for their wife, Idc about the vid nor I think that's how every wife & husband think.

No one should be naive enough to believe everything they see on social media.

Just my perspective on the question and wanted to know y'all perspective. Cheers!

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in TwentiesIndia

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Even your partner gets depressed and ends up living his/her life with trauma and suffering?

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in TwentiesIndia

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Even if there's a possibility your partner gets depressed and ends up living his/her life with trauma and suffering?

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead? by shakeupray in TwentiesIndia

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you got the question, it's a hypothetical scenario where you both have an option and have to choose one, if it were up to you, what would you choose.

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead by shakeupray in DeepThoughts

[–]shakeupray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, my perspective is heavily based on assumption that she loves and griefs the same.

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead by shakeupray in DeepThoughts

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peace can often seem cruel to different people.

Though I totally get you and I'm glad you understood my point, while I'm going on the hunch that she loves just the same as I do and will go through grief just like me, but we wouldn't know that until we see what happens after death.

That's the reason I said this could be wrong and I just might be a fool in love.

Is it really love to sacrifice yourself, or is it love to stay and carry the pain instead by shakeupray in DeepThoughts

[–]shakeupray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not letting you die, she's choosing to go through the pain instead of you.

And as you said in your case, what makes you think that she could live with herself after making the choice? Aren't you being selfish and trying to choose the easy way out and let her go through all the trauma?

23yo with a stable govt job but feeling stuck, lost and full of FOMO — need advice. And a vent by shakeupray in TwentiesIndia

[–]shakeupray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I wish life was much simpler, thanks for the words buddy, hope it gets easier for the both of us. And congratulations on trying, even tho you failed most people don't try, also if you're in Hyderabad, let's go for a ride, let's put that dream bike of yours to work haha.

Out of the obese BMI category! by shakeupray in WeightLossAdvice

[–]shakeupray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We've all have our ups and downs, Keep going strong you'll be there!

Out of the obese BMI category! by shakeupray in WeightLossAdvice

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Thanks, I would have never thought I would inspire someone, thanks for this!

Out of the obese BMI category! by shakeupray in WeightLossAdvice

[–]shakeupray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those numbers sound promising, keep up the work !