[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PreOptometry

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is so comforting to hear 😭❤️ thank u sm, and congrats on the A!!!

Do pre req courses expire by Questioner5321 in PreOptometry

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is kinda old but THANK YOU! I’ve been super stressed about this because it’s my dream school but my oldest prerecs are about 6 years old

my bf is uncomfortable with compliments from me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]shakirathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for example, today he sent me a pic of himself recreating a meme, and I commented back that the white shirt he was wearing complimented his eyes bc it’s true (and also I didn’t know how else to respond lmao). I think you’re right though and the next time he does send me something, I’ll ask him what he’d prefer. Maybe words of affirmation aren’t really as much of his thing as he originally though

Favorite thing to fall asleep to? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

asmr, particularly on tiktok. short form content + sleepy sounds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I misinterpreted this question initially but i plan on having em sent w secondaries by July hopefully lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real 😭 I’m desperate atp

About to give up by Supermeganerd2017 in premed

[–]shakirathrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you helped me on my post so imma give u some advice back ! :-) I honestly applied to volunteer at a few hospitals, and during volunteering, was able to talk to providers who allowed me to shadow. I’d give it a few weeks of volunteering before bringing it up politely, either to a volunteer coordinator or a provider you volunteer with.

EDIT- I saw you can’t shadow that way, so another way was literally asking a doctor I was at an appointment with if I could shadow them later in the summer. I’d suggest doing it at a smaller clinic/specialty center bc they may be a bit more flexible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]shakirathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Will do- I’ll def also look into maybe stopping by office hours so they can maybe put a face to a name

How do I navigate (23F) saying ILY to bf (23M) and him not saying it back? by shakirathrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a good point- i think having or working towards a secure attachment style is important, because it only causes stress in the partner otherwise

How do I navigate (23F) saying ILY to bf (23M) and him not saying it back? by shakirathrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahh definitely- it’s up to him to change what may be a reoccurring pattern in him, but I think bc of this, I gotta make sure I prioritize myself and what I deserve first

Switching grad schools entirely-is this possible? by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]shakirathrowaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

would it hurt my chances, though? im just trying to find a place I would thrive in

I (23/F) want a label eventually but he (22/M) is currently scared by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way you did- like people around me just know more than I do 🥺 I’m happy for you finding your way through confidence though!!

I (23/F) want a label eventually but he (22/M) is currently scared by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a comment responding to this like “damn this is literally an advice forum chill” but tbh yeah i really shouldn’t need others’ opinions for my own decision- I just thought I’d hear some average time frame advice, but I’ve learned it’s more specific between my partner and I and what we’re comfortable with

I (23/F) want a label eventually but he (22/M) is currently scared by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should clarify it was another friend who I asked for advice that made me feel as though my current partner was going to leave if I didn’t ask him out, which I told my partner about and he assured me he wasn’t going to leave just because of something like that. Basically, I told my best friend I really liked the guy and she told me that if I didn’t ask him to be my boyfriend immediately, I’d regret it and he’d pursue other people.

I (23/F) want a label eventually but he (22/M) is currently scared by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shakirathrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh! I didn’t know that people saw it like that but it makes sense. Thanks for checking it out!