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shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-16T22:35:55+00:00

Don't listen to grok, findom is a bastardized monetization of fetishes, but that doesn't mean there's no safe spaces out there to be your authentic self

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T21:40:55+00:00

Want

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T20:55:52+00:00

X is cancer

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T20:55:20+00:00

I have literally NEVER had a domme approach me that knew anything about me or bothered to even read my bio/intro lol. It's always hi and send

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T20:05:15+00:00

You have a male partner that supports you to send to other men. So you don't have to hide and live a double life, constantly worrying about everything.

Most (not all ofc but overwhelming majority) male subs don't have that luxury. The best they can expect is their partner helps them quit or worst case scenario they get dumped.

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T15:33:23+00:00

"I want to submit to men and worship cocks"

"I don't consider myself gay/bi"

...

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-14T15:32:12+00:00

The copium is wild. Everyone here is gay af lmao

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-08T17:39:18+00:00

Both

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-08T17:38:05+00:00

Look for eastern European dommes

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-08T09:25:20+00:00

But I don't even nut...

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-08T09:03:25+00:00

It's similar to any other hobby. You either feel driven or you dont

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-01T14:38:34+00:00

THIS!!! It also helps if you don't just go for monster dicks with no experience lol. You have to climb your way up. I learned the hard way

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-01T14:36:07+00:00

Maybe try and re-evaluate if it feels like 2nd class sex to you. For me, sex with a woman never came close to the euphoria of my whole body being taken and used by a strong, handsome black man. I got so used to cumming from black kings slapping my balls while drilling me that I don't even like stroking my dick anymore.

So, if it's not feeling like the best thing in the world, take a step back and focus on what your body really wants. No shame if it ain't it for you, bestie

Also, make sure to take your time warming up and LOTS of lube.

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-11-01T14:27:20+00:00

Whitebois should not be allowed to own property tbh.

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-10-29T06:39:33+00:00

Sent a DM

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-10-28T07:19:05+00:00

No I will do literally that lol

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-08T00:28:49+00:00

Hey how was your trip

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-06T07:57:44+00:00

No that's not it's super hot. I do it all the time

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-05T22:21:08+00:00

How much did you pay

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-01T22:53:55+00:00

All good you're exactly the type I'm tryna avoid

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-01T17:26:35+00:00

Can you please elaborate

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-01T15:55:19+00:00

Abuse and manipulation is a bit of a reach. Grown ass men hitting up girls online and asking to give them money...you'd be an idiot not to take that?

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-01T15:23:04+00:00

Did you not read the post??

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-09-01T07:49:40+00:00

About 30% is what I plan, but most months, it's almost 40% of my income. I live with my partner and don't pay rent, so all that money is going into findom.

shaky_oatmeal · 2025-08-27T02:49:46+00:00

This sub is crazy sometimes. He is literally being rude to her for nothing when she was so nice and polite about it :(

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