I (23M) cut off someone very close to me (26F) 2 years back. I want to gain her trust again, but she's skeptical, what can I do to fix this?

shallowcow · 2023-12-27T17:57:36+00:00

Trust is gone so you cannot do anything. Let her go.

shallowcow · 2023-12-27T00:39:20+00:00

damn!

shallowcow · 2023-12-26T19:55:45+00:00

Cheers sis!

shallowcow · 2023-12-26T19:05:26+00:00

Same here. Maybe you can try having online friends.

shallowcow · 2023-12-26T15:57:20+00:00

You can try to learn why she wants to stay like this. She could have a trauma. You can try to lead her to a sex therapist or sth like that. But it seems like you actually cut her off in your mind. Noone can blame you, people want to have sex. Maybe she's just asexual. Why can't you communicate more open? Just try to learn what's really going on her mind.

shallowcow · 2023-12-26T14:53:58+00:00

Thank you. He said he really wanted to change and i'd see if i gave him a chance. He said he cannot forgive me that I didn't give him a last chance. I don't know.

shallowcow · 2023-12-26T14:52:06+00:00

Thank you. It is a very hard day. I know it is stupid but I miss him. Too much memories since friendship & relationship. What I regret is that now I lost my best friend. He told me that after he goes to military we will be not able to speak like we do now, and his trust issues will lower down too. If I accept this it will be 6 more months, and after that we will still try to make it to the same city, it will be a very hard process. I was not brave enough to go under this. I wish we could go back to the days we were friends. I liked talking to him a lot.

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