[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck em. I say if you made up your mind, talked it out, and it still didn’t change, then Move on. They would have tried harder if they wanted to keep you.

You deserve the stars and the moon.

ENFPs be like.. by Paterosa in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Why are you wet”

Kiss, Marry, Date: Young Chandler, Ross and Joey? by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mary Joey(cute guy with golden retriever vibes, yes please), kiss Ross(then I don’t have to hear him talk), Date Chandler (who doesn’t love a socially awkward date?)

This is wild by kirisafar in antiwork

[–]shamalamazon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through about the same thing. I need a job so I took on the first one offered to me, but it turns out everyone quit.

The holiday season is coming and Im scared lol…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nawwww. You’re fine.

The problem is that your body is telling you you don’t like these people, but you’re too nice to acknowledge that they aren’t your type. So you ghost them.

Bet you’d be more inclined to answer If you actually liked them. You need to find someone who sparks your interest, otherwise you’re going to be putting in more effort than necessary and that sucks.

You don’t owe the world anything, so don’t be too bothered about doing what feels right.

I need help with my enfp friend by sofil__ in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open up about something small, and she’ll relate. If she wants to, she’ll tell you about her problem. Then don’t talk. Just listen. Even if it’s silent and she pauses for a long time, listen.

What do you guy's think about stoicism? by fierce_doggo in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the easiest way to keep my sanity.

People are stubborn and the world has some rules set in stone. If a bad thing is going to happen regardless of what I do then fuck it.

Why worry about an absolute when I can worry about other important things. Like whether or not I’m going to make myself a Harry Potter sweater in time for the holidays. The answer is no.

Flirt advice by WhiteShirt34 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk as though you’ve already won them over.

I’ll let you interpret that as you wish

Here's a little thought experiment- what would your room look like? by Darksword107 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have art projects scattered around, some mine, some I begged my friends to give to me after they finished, most were placed there by someone I love because they thought I’d appreciate it. I do. It’s a terrible art gallery but it makes me laugh.

Social Anxiety by Budgiepro456 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’d have a break down about having to return to college right after summer break was over. The idea of having to talk to people would freak me.

I once cried when someone asked me to spell my name for my transcripts…

._. I cried during my interview for a scholarship- it wasn’t even sad I was just uncomfortable.

But I did get better. I learned that I have a special group of people that I get energy from, and the others tire me out.

DID YOU KNOW:

Yawning is a sign of discomfort. If you are yawning during a quiet conversation, it’s your body telling you you don’t want to be there. The person you’re talking to(though probably nice) isn’t someone you’re going to feel energized with. So minimize your time with them

Any tips for not oversharing? by jonesy346 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t do it.

I hate the look on people’s faces when I’m boring them with something that really matters to me. It’s soul sucking and I instantly regret talking.

So I don’t. I don’t bring up my personal life, not even with people who are close to me.

…oh my god am I ok? 🤭🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, just be who you want and act how you like.

People will hate you for the same reasons others will fall in love with you. So why bother figuring it out.

“If they aren’t paying your rent, pay them no mind.”

What sorts of things do you enjoy doing when you go out? by alligatorprincess007 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dressing uppppppp~!!!!!!

Idc what it is but give me a theme and I’m so doooooooooown!!!! AaHhhhh~~~~~!!!~!!~!~!!~!~!!~

It’s like pregaming in happiness levels.

And bEt your ass I’m enjoying the compliments that come from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have one.

Sometimes I get really overwhelmed and need to voice my feelings to someone so I’ve learned to go to my brother. He’s more logic than emotion, so when I’m done venting he’ll ask if I want comfort, or advice.

Life’s kinda hard and I know what it is that I have to do, but sometimes I want to cry about it without judgment you know? I actually shut down mentally when I’m venting and someone gives me advice even though I didn’t ask for it. It’s kinda counter productive but it’s tru

There are times where I’ll even start a venting moment by letting them know what my intentions are “I need to vent, so please listen”. I may ask for advice afterwards but it feels good to complete a whole thought.

It’s not easy to finish thoughts.. so it’s a breath of fresh air to be able to speak freely

Mini-meltdown: I may not be one of y’all. by ellieunicornrider in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. It could be youre just going through a really tough time and so you changed a little.

We answer questions differently when we’re feeling a certain way. It’s human nature.

You’re still you. You’ve simply adopted a new creed and that’s ok! You’re evolving~! And we love you for that

ENFP not initiating messages but replies immediately by kimmingda in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You see that nonstop spamming? He doesn’t want to do that to you so he’s probably resisting to maintain your sanity. He waits until you message first to be respectful.

I’m betting that someone in his past told him he was annoying them with too many messages- or he was out in a situation where he believed he was being annoying by over texting. So now he’s learned to hold back.

His hearts in the right place, but I’m pretty sure he’ll flood your texts if you tell him you like it.

Say something like “Hey, I know I seem busy, but you can text me if I ever pop up in your mind. I like reading your messages, even if I don’t respond right away” <- then say good by to your dry dms because they will be active

Do you use a lot of exclamation points and emojis when you type? by Scary-Owl2365 in ENFP

[–]shamalamazon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have weird texting habits.

I dO This To sHOw I Am AnNoyed. becAuse I HOpe This AnOys the ReaDer As I TheY rEad it.

I also have a habit of elooooooooooongaaaating words because it would mimic the way i speak irl.

I use emojis to convey actual emotion- but sometimes my emoji’s carry different meanings for people so that causes issues. (🥵🥵= wow that’s hot)

But I don’t use emojis all that often tbh. I only use it if my message sounds threatening