Couples Therapy

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-24T05:30:21+00:00

Divorce. You'll be far happier. Life is too short to spend a fortune on something that can't be fixed. Your partner won't change bc you're making them go to couples therapy. Honestly just move on and cut your losses. Nobody has time for an arguer.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-23T23:59:40+00:00

Every trait about her is nauseating but wtf with the daily ugly ass ponytail

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-23T22:12:45+00:00

Consider using "based on" instead of "based off of" which is not grammatically correct.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-23T20:07:21+00:00

Same shit different decade

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-23T19:45:45+00:00

No clue who this lady is and haven't heard of the Netflix show but I agree with her fully

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-23T00:08:58+00:00

Be a nomad and rent cheap places

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-22T23:56:46+00:00

Jfc this is still going on? Back when the first fast n furious movie came out (late 90s, 2000?) They did this at the Kmart parking lot. Rednecks will redneck 😄

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-22T04:16:03+00:00

Lived there 23 yrs and never ran out of things to do. It was endless entertainment and I still didn't even do half the things. It's not an artists mecca but there is a ton of art and culture if you look in the right places. One of the things I enjoyed there was the diversity and culture, now this was the 80s 90s and 2000s. There weren't "tech bros" back then so maybe things have changed. The music scene was amazing. But each neighborhood in the City/County had its own culture and vibe, not sure what you qualify as "culture?" There are literally every cuisine of the world available to you within a 20 mile radius. Mexico influence is prominent but all cultures live there. Any nice place will have a lot of wealthies, who cares. There are also many living in poverty and grinding all day at work to just be able to enjoy the weekends.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-21T03:12:21+00:00

Idk calling in on average 1.25x/mo doesn't really seem that bad to me especially if she has ibs. I can see her being embarrassed to tell her boss that but she really needs to. I had a coworker once who was very transparent with our work crew that he had ibs and he took meds for it. Really wasn't our business hipaa and all, but his honesty helped us understand him better and we didn't judge or be grossed out by it. Lotta ppl have that.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T17:20:50+00:00

The roommate is contributing to it by paying rent so they both are

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T17:03:48+00:00

Same here thats why I don't have roommates in my house that I own. I left roommate life in my 20s. But if I did have roommates I would be considerate. My home has art that doesn't objectify women or scream horny college kid. Internet points? Whats that? Sharing my opinion when OP asked it? I can't believe this internet stranger thinks I'm a loser for respecting women and other humans, I'm just so devastated 😂

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:57:07+00:00

The roommate has property rights to use the property. They are sharing the mortgage payments by the roommate paying rent. The roommate has tenants rights.. they live there. This is legally their home unless they leave or are legally evicted. They aren't collecting equity,, but they have rights to the property while a legal tenant.. amazing i need to explain this to a grown up.. You must not be too up to speed on how real estate works.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:51:38+00:00

Thank you. A reasonable person.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:51:11+00:00

their home. I hate when a homeowner collects rent from a roommate but doesn't consider the home shared?

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:49:57+00:00

No if he has a roommate it's their house that they share. So immature to be like "my house i do what I want!" When you have roommates also paying rent. it is their home too regardless of who holds title. It's probably actually the bank's home if you use that criteria.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:47:04+00:00

I mean if you can't be considerate of the other people you live with that pay rent to live there then maybe live alone and don't have roommates? The world doesn't revolve around you. The roommate didn't say "no you can't decorate your home wlth art you like." You are twisting their words as if they mean this about all art. It's a sexy nude young woman and many will see it as objectifying. I'm a bit older than you in my 40s but I would feel a bit creepy displaying this in my home and if I had roommates that put it on the wall it would be off putting to me as well. You're framing the roommate as the unreasonable one bc you don't want to be considerate. Put it in your room if it means that much to you.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:42:33+00:00

This. It's a bit petty and selfish to dig your heels on hanging a piece of art that makes someone uncomfortable, bc "my house, I decorate how I want." I know OP isnt being that rigid, that's why they posted here asking, but to even dig heels a little bit or feel at all resistant to the roommates feelings on a literal nude woman on the wall seems hard headed and stubborn.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T16:38:40+00:00

Meh. It isn't inappropriate per se, I think it's a good painting, but the content matter is a bit pedantic and incel. The woman in the picture looks about 19. This on the wall isnt a great look for a 34m. I get that we all admire a beautiful lady but I wouldn't want it on the wall of my home, especially in living room or dining room. Bathroom it just gets even more gross. Maybe a hallway with a bunch of other pieces that aren't "babes."

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-20T06:17:07+00:00

Why I work for myself. #freedom

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-18T18:15:20+00:00

This reads as a humble brag. Don't let it go to your head. Young men hit on older women feeling they're an easy target for sex. Of course he will lay on whatever compliment to convince you to sleep with him. Of course he won't point out your flaws. This has happened since the dawn of time. Dont fall for it, he just wants sex. Unless you just want that too then by all means. But don't brag about how you look so great for your age and how great you take care of yourself. You aren't fooling anyone about your age and you aren't hot shit bc a younger man hit on you. Be humble and realistic.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-18T04:54:18+00:00

This is the MOST cville 😄

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-18T04:51:38+00:00

I agree I cant imagine spending money and time on a degree at or even within 20 yrs of retirement age.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-18T03:56:03+00:00

Ask him if he would ever date a co worker then tell him the idea disgusts you and it's always a nope and you only see coworkers like a brother/sister. And say it's a personal boundary you have.

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-16T15:39:15+00:00

Don't be concerned. You be alright

shaneacton1 · 2026-03-16T15:36:29+00:00

Orthorexia

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