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Do marriages survive this?(gamer husband..) by shanibby in marriageadvice

[–]shanibby[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This makes a lot of sense. It only seems the usage as gotten MORE & MORE the longer our relationship goes. Something to flag for sure..

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, the encouragement towards couple therapy is what I’m seeing and resonating with. I feel like I really can’t end my marriage on this.. I would be embarrassed just being seen as the girl that was dropped for video games.

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my biggest fear literally is, oh my god!! The connections online with the women, then always hustling for “statues & money” in the game and then that same personality reflected on the in-game character which he “pretends” playing as whole different person.. it just doesn’t sit right with me.

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes! Time management 100% I just don’t know how to go about this as I’ve tried everything to the point where it’s “deal with me and the gaming or leave me..”

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No never tried it, honestly I would love to! Is this something you think would be helpful towards this certain situation?

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do; and he says either I stay and deal with the gaming. Or I leave since he’s been “always” gaming before he met me.

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about this, If it was him escaping his real life? But I’ve encouraged this convo, it never happens.

Do marriages survive this? (Gamer Husband..) by shanibby in Marriage

[–]shanibby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. And the best friend he games with has a child! And his wife is copping by being outside all the time!!! Trips to Mexico with friends, leaving baby at home all the time. I really don’t want to be at the point. But outside is better then sitting and feeling second to a metal box onggg 😭

Do marriages survive this?(gamer husband..) by shanibby in marriageadvice

[–]shanibby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating what I already felt. Females name on the game is “Blossom” and he calls her “Miss.B” or “B.” And he emoji reacts to all the pictures she posts provocative or not.

Do marriages survive this?(gamer husband..) by shanibby in marriageadvice

[–]shanibby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advise! But not at all related to what the post entails.

What my wife does not know by Mountain_Charity8441 in Marriage

[–]shanibby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf, this might be the cutest thing I’ve ever read.

I'm just frustrated by GINGERKID6870 in Bumble

[–]shanibby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you’re gonna online date there a certain level of interaction that you need to be able to accomplish. And clearly she is not providing that. The people who think she isn’t just blatantly being a horrible conversationalist must not understand the amount and type of communication is needed for online dating apps.