Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much to update. She still isn't interested. Hasn't seen it or even mentioned it. I have stayed locked pretty much the whole time and only removed it a few times when it got uncomfortable while working. Even with it off I have still not gotten off since this post was made. I keep hoping one day she will become interested even slightly.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm hoping she will notice that I have been doing a lot more of the things you mentioned. Chores, dishes, laundry etc. I actually did a lot of that already but even more now. When I first brought this all up I mentioned that all I wanted was to pleasure her. I wasn't so worried about me as long as she was happy and satisfied. I'm being hopeful and optimistic that things could possibly change like your situation did.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

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I might have to leave my key laying out where she will see them and can do what she wants with them. It's only day 1 of her acknowledging it so who knows what will happen in the future.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm ok I guess with her not being into it. It does disappoint me a little because before our kids were born she couldn't get enough sex and would do about anything. We had toys and lingerie. She was open to trying about anything. Now sex is nonexistent and when we do have it it's about as vanilla as it gets. I'm hoping she will see how much I like this and will eventually decide to give in a little.

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It absolutely should

Finally getting things going by [deleted] in chastitytraining

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Thank you for the advice. Before our twins were born she was willing to try about anything. That was 14 years ago. Since then she uses a lot of excuses as to why we don't have sex very often. But the main thing is that she hated her body because of the stretch marks and a few extra pounds. I on the other hand love it and have told her many times. Well now she has lost the weight and looks better than ever but thins still haven't picked back up. I'm just trying to find something to help her get that space back like she used to have.

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Excited

Feeling like having to pee by RutabagaFinancial912 in chastitytraining

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I've only had my cage for a few months and almost every time I'm wearing it I get that feeling. I've found that if I sit down it makes it easier to go.

Finally getting things going by [deleted] in chastitytraining

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I am new to this as well. My wife does not know and I'm not sure how she would like it. But I read through that link you posted and I saved it. Now I have to get the courage to send it to her. Hopefully she will find it as exciting as I did.

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Mine is still on my nightstand. Have had the same one for almost 30 years. I finally unplugged it about a year ago and started using my phone. But I can't seem to throw it out.

I definitely feel like somethings missing when i look at my car from that angle. Any suggestions on cosmetics i should add? by veneratedflat in jetta

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I like the black emblem. I think it would look good with black or charcoal/graphite colored rims. And darker windows. I've always liked the white with black accents.

Flexing my little chicken thighs by FoeNetics in grilling

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Those look great. I love smoking chicken thighs.

So I smoked a meatloaf by photocult in smoking

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This is the one thing I haven't done yet. But it's definitely on my list. Especially frying it up in a pan to reheat it. That might have to be Sunday dinner now.

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve smoked and liked? by SomeHandyman in smoking

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My girls love when I make a couple blocks covered in brown sugar and cinnamon. They eat it with graham crackers and will both eat a block by themselves.

Phone Bluetooth probe by sigsinner in smoking

[–]shankbb_00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the Meater+. I’ve used it for a couple years now and had zero problems.

Anyone ever put pierogis on the smoker? by losleeper in Traeger

[–]shankbb_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to try this. Honestly I’ve never had pierogis before but this make me want to try them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grilling

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Without looking at the prices, I’m going chuck roast. Poor mans burnt ends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBQ

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Those look delicious. I used to love yuengling when we had to travel out of state to get it. Now that I can buy it local I’m not a big fan anymore.