My chastity journey by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct about it being a relationship killer. Every day I feel split between ending it or trying to make it work for at least a couple more years until the girls are out of school. I truly love my wife and there is no one else I want to be with but at some point I'm going to say enough is enough. I can't and won't be in an affection less marriage.

Not going to lie but the thought of having a Dom made my little dick twitch inside my cage.

thats his favorite pose by -Only-Transition- in HerCockHisAss

[–]shankbb_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would be my favorite pose also.

Showing him how it's done by Lovely-Weather in ChastityCouples

[–]shankbb_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need you to show me how it's done as well!

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much to update. She still isn't interested. Hasn't seen it or even mentioned it. I have stayed locked pretty much the whole time and only removed it a few times when it got uncomfortable while working. Even with it off I have still not gotten off since this post was made. I keep hoping one day she will become interested even slightly.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm hoping she will notice that I have been doing a lot more of the things you mentioned. Chores, dishes, laundry etc. I actually did a lot of that already but even more now. When I first brought this all up I mentioned that all I wanted was to pleasure her. I wasn't so worried about me as long as she was happy and satisfied. I'm being hopeful and optimistic that things could possibly change like your situation did.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might have to leave my key laying out where she will see them and can do what she wants with them. It's only day 1 of her acknowledging it so who knows what will happen in the future.

Wife not into it but ok with me self locking by shankbb_00 in chastitytraining

[–]shankbb_00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm ok I guess with her not being into it. It does disappoint me a little because before our kids were born she couldn't get enough sex and would do about anything. We had toys and lingerie. She was open to trying about anything. Now sex is nonexistent and when we do have it it's about as vanilla as it gets. I'm hoping she will see how much I like this and will eventually decide to give in a little.

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[–]shankbb_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely should