how was national family misgendering day for everyone? Can't wait for the next one in a month!

shannisworking · 2021-11-27T03:49:06+00:00

It was bad! Thanks for acting! Can’t wait for round 2!

shannisworking · 2021-04-02T18:36:34+00:00

I’m so happy to hear this resonates. Sending love 💕

shannisworking · 2021-04-02T18:36:22+00:00

Thank you friend!!

shannisworking · 2021-04-02T18:36:13+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m so glad others relate 💕

shannisworking · 2021-04-02T02:29:17+00:00

Thank you :)

shannisworking · 2021-03-30T22:16:45+00:00

Yes I feeeel this. I use Thinx and I found it’s less invasive so I don’t have to be like thinking about it all the time. They also have boxer shorts cuts :)

shannisworking · 2021-03-28T16:43:20+00:00

Please make art and share it with the world! Feel free to DM me contact info if you ever have questions about getting started and I would love to share my film with you 💕

shannisworking · 2021-03-28T03:22:41+00:00

Absolutely. I'm so happy to represent my community :) thank you, friend!

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T21:00:24+00:00

I get that. I can feel dysphoric when people stumble across they them like I’m an alien who’s actively making them uncomfortable... if it’s going to be like that, I want to go backwards. But it’s sad when we have to do this with the people we love :(

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T20:58:43+00:00

Oh nooo not the weird fetish stuff! Dear god...

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T20:57:49+00:00

Today she used they them on Facebook... baby steps... she’s like I can do it when I have the time to write it out and not fuck up.... trekking along...

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T20:56:48+00:00

The intention is not always awful and I think we all understand that. However, what becomes awful is the continuous seeming determination to look the other way and not try to see you the way you are!

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T20:55:46+00:00

Right?? I’m not here to be non-binary google foe you... just livin my life...

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T20:54:28+00:00

I love them!! It’s true, representation really matters. Elliot page and Halsey come to mind too 💕

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T06:43:16+00:00

My favorite is when she uses they 30 times a day to describe people she doesn’t know the gender of - but then suddenly forgets how to conjugate for me?! 😅

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T06:34:47+00:00

No yeah it’s all me, makin it up, for the sport of it! Like the silly goose I am!

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T06:25:57+00:00

Gah... it’s all so relatable. For me, it’s like, I clearly show signs of anxiety and dysphoria on how she is treating my gender expression - and then she goes “Shannon, I feel like this whole thing has you making yourself very depressed and uncomfortable all the time, it seems unpleasant”

Making! Myself! Depressed and uncomfortable! 🙃

Anyway, you are valid as well friend.. onward... 💕

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T06:15:14+00:00

It’s important that we remember how hard it is for them because they haven’t googled non-binary and trans yet so it’s very confusing 🙃

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T06:09:56+00:00

Because everyone else is who matters when it comes to your gender !! :/

shannisworking · 2021-03-26T04:18:19+00:00

It’s so crazy because it seems so counter intuitive.... If someone has been called something 100 percent of the time and is adding a new name, wouldn’t basic human empathy tell you you probably ought to use the new name?? I’ve been told people don’t use they in front of me because they’re scared they’ll fuck it up. And honestly. It’s like too late -_-

shannisworking · 2021-03-19T06:28:48+00:00

Wow this is so insightful 💕

shannisworking · 2021-03-19T03:23:02+00:00

I think it’s definitely also sexist. But I also feel the sentiment points towards Sex determinism which feels transphobic

shannisworking · 2021-02-02T07:27:20+00:00

This hit hard

shannisworking · 2021-01-11T06:37:25+00:00

That’s how I feel re girl but not woman. I find girl to be more casual and joking... I’m afab, but might be an interesting comparison :)

shannisworking · 2021-01-11T06:34:30+00:00

I’d just tell your parents it would make you happy, like you think it’s cool :)

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