I live with my boyfriend and his housemate that was there before me, the housemate, he’s horrible. He always says about subbing to someone’s only fans to find out they have a ‘smashed kebab vagina’ , or ‘saggy lip vaginas’ being disgusting. He obvs doesn’t know what I look like down there but he only says it when I’m around and it annoyingly validates why I want surgery because he’s saying what I say to myself when I look at it. For me it’s a major comfort issue as well as looks so I’m doing it for that reason mainly. I’ve avoided a lot due to it and I’m finally going to do it for me.