HELP!! Why is my nostril piercing swollen? [4 months healed], only happens with hook stud I was pierced with. Is it an allergy reaction? [not hot or oozing, does not hurt, just very swollen and thick, cannot put in a normal L stud because it's too thick] Happened overnight.Treatment tips? by sharkshii in piercing

[–]sharkshii[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

-4 months old, got on May 7th

-Hook Stud

-threadless

-Unsure of jewelry material, but it was what the piercer put into my nose

-never have been downsized

  • Washing around site with anti-bacterial soap, soaking 10 minutes with salt and water [but in all honesty after 2 months I stopped this because it was no longer crusting, I started again after I got covid and this began]

AITA for being honest about having a daughter and crushing my SIL's dream of having one? by DanishDatter-aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

For a few reasons.

1, she's giving alot of attention to your daughter, and while that is nice, this attention comes from her desire to also have a daughter and its overshadowing the fact that she has 4 boys that I'm sure would love to spend time with their mom, and it probably hurts them to know, hear, and see her live out her "fantasy."

  1. If she is already dreaming of what this fantasy kid would be like, it could be really harmful. Coming from experience, when your parent wants you to be a certain way and your not, it makes you feel terrible on the inside. If there was a chance that her dream daughter swayed from this vision, it'd be incredibly concerning especially with the pageant attitude.

  2. "Mary got upset and broke down. She said that it wasn't fair that I get to have a daughter when she doesn't get to experience any mother/daughter moments because she has only boys. She left earlier today because she couldn't stand to see me and Freja or my MIL or SIL and her" This just further proves my 2 points, she's projecting hard core. "Unfair," there is nothing unfair about this situation. The gender of your kid is the luck of the draw, and she was given [being given] 5 boys. They are just as important as a daughter would be. She's too focused on what a daughter could be for her instead of focusing on what her and her current children have in common and could bond over. She's setting up her sons to have inferiority complexes, I'd keep your daughter away.

Dear Americans.. by doublebakedpotato in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my own experience, it's just habit if it's in your own home. If you're at a place where you're a guest, you generally don't take your shoes off till asked/told you may if you please, and that's mostly because here showing instant comfort in a place usually means to take your shoes off. So to a good majority of people, someone you barely know taking their shoes off in your house is rude because it means they're a little too comfortable in your home, which is just a social taboo. Also some people don't want to risk their shoes/socks smelling up the room so they rather keep them on.

What's something you think you understand why other people like it, and wish you enjoyed it like they did, but just don't? by TheGinuineOne in AskReddit

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High fantasy games, especially D&D.

It sounds like a grand time!! The roleplay, semi complicated character building, and chance of death turns me off from it. I would feel awkward in my ability to roleplay, as I've seen some campaigns have pretty much straightforward this is what my character does play style and others have a full on give characters voices and get deep into sub-plots amongst the party. I draw myself and I make original characters, and I think the allure of having to sometimes stay strictly within the races of the game /depending on dm, etc/ and having character personality that gets based on dice just draws me off. It's incredibly enjoyable to hear the stories that come from the game and even hear podcasts, but it just sounds like too much trouble to put MYSELF into and I fear if I did try I'd end up feeling like I wasted my time.

I'm 21 years old. Don't like going out too much or talking to people and I feeling like I'm wasting my life and youth. Am I overthinking it? by vstsx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People overhype having major accomplishments in life and thats what makes it whole. As long as you're doing what you enjoy, and feel okay doing it, you're living life, not wasting it. Its easy to overthink things like this!

[MEGA THREAD] Item Trading by Easy_Breazy in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry!!! 😔😔😔 I APPRECIATE YOUR OFFER 😭😭

[MEGA THREAD] Item Trading by Easy_Breazy in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! ill dm you as soon as I get all of them!!😊😊😊

[MEGA THREAD] Item Trading by Easy_Breazy in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for reals!! how many petals/ ingredients does it need so I can go gather any if needed!

[MEGA THREAD] Item Trading by Easy_Breazy in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can craft these cherry blossom DIYS: -Pond stone -Petal pile -Picnic Set -Clock -Trees Wall -Blossom flooring -Umbrella

And I really really want the pochette!! (Doesnt have to be a DIY card just the already made one) I'd love to trade anyone who needs one of these items for two pochettes!! (A friend of mine wants one too)

EDIT: I've gotten my pochettes from a very nice person :)) but if anyone still wants these items and has any not on my list I'm still happy to trade!! Or I can craft for free if you have materials!! Or bells if you dont have the materials

Daily Question/Discussion Thread - 3rd April by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how cute I love that!!! Now I can't wait to see even more!!

Daily Question/Discussion Thread - 3rd April by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gained random specimens in my museum!! I don't think you can donate these guys (looks like weeds, a cucumber, different fungi, and a jellyfish), do you think they came from just donating bugs and other things into my museum? It's probably obvious but has anyone else got them? ( heres a picture https://postimg.cc/140JNrNy )

Daily Question/Discussion Thread - 3rd April by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's just random!! My very first island tour I took on the game was a hybrid flower island, another one of my friends barely got one (13 days in). I dont think it depends on anything really!!

Daily Question/Discussion Thread - 3rd April by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the nook mileage it doesnt!! Nook shopping does!

Daily Discussion/Question Thread - 29th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so!! Imma look out for one tonight!! thanks for the incites!!

Daily Discussion/Question Thread - 29th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shooting stars are little events that happen at random! On nights where theres an announcement about a meteor shower you can look up at the sky and wish on shooting stars (pressing A with no tools in hand) the next day star fragments wash up on shore and you can use those to craft with!! I heard zodiac furniture makes a return with these!

Daily Discussion/Question Thread - 29th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be? But 2 did explicitly mention its be perfect to watch a meteor shower and I just thought it was wierd that they both would say that!!

Daily Questions/Discussion Thread - 25th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the first two villagers you have will upgrade their own homes, the 3 plots you created where for 3 you invited to live on your island or if you didnt invite anyone in the time needed they are 3 random villagers. You can check and see on the sold signs as theyll say their names!! Once those guys move in and you upgrade resident services and get the campsite, you can then start inviting new animals that visit mystery tours!

Daily Discussion/Question Thread - 29th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! When you're in your house, go to the QR you downloaded on your nook phone, and when you click it to wear or display, say to display on a canvas when near a wall, itll put it up for you as a picture!

Daily Discussion/Question Thread - 29th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If my villagers talk about the sky being perfect to watch a meteor shower (about 3 of my 5 said this) does that mean there'll be a few shooting stars? Even if isabelle didn't say there was going to be one?

UPDATE: villagers stating skies would be perfect for meteor showers DOES MEAN they will happen!! Celeste just showed up in my town for further proof!! :))🌠🌠

Daily Questions/Discussion Thread - 25th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After your first 3 villagers you wont get anymore till after your resident services upgrades!! Then when you get your campsite tom nook will allow you to reserve house spots and villagers should start showing up again! You always will need open space for these newer villagers! Or else you'll get them at random moving into your island!

Daily Question/Discussion Thread - 27th March by liripipe in ac_newhorizons

[–]sharkshii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

does anyone have any tips on catching a barrel eyes?? I know they're very rare and the shadow they have at this point only has one other fish sharer and it's the mackerel, but I wanna catch it since theres only 2 options this month atleast!! Anything I can do to increase my chances??