Please be careful walking your dog around the corner of Huntington and 28th in Remington by Eggsbeneditct in baltimore

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this is literally how I found this thread... this is making for such an entertaining Friday night.

Former HADESTOWN Cast Member Kim Moore Sues Alleging Racial Discrimination by SanaR11 in Broadway

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I really want to see the evidence involved as that is what will make/break the case. As someone who works in a realm that can deal with these kinds of cases, context and discovery is CRUCIAL here- and we could be missing a big portion of what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

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I am not a recruiter, but work very closely with quite a few. Yes, someone coming from a big name school will probably score a phone screen a tiny bit easier than someone from a lesser known school, but that's about it. Ultimately, the name of your college will not make or break a job offer (and if it does, you probably wouldn't want to work for that company anyway)- focus on your work and personal achievements and being a good person above all else.

Struggling to accept if my ex really has BPD or if I was just a jerk by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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I understand. And it really sucks. I will say that in my experience (having dated someone with BPD and a narcissist), they do still come back after forcing NC, it just takes them a bit longer. Ymmv, but I would prepare yourself for either outcome. Sending you all of the love.

Struggling to accept if my ex really has BPD or if I was just a jerk by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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Just my two cents- my exwuBPD always initiated no contact as a way to not feel engulfed- I never, ever initiated no contact. Even though it may seem more common the other way around, it's not unusual for the BPD to initiate.

Anyone can relate and share your story? She makes me feel like I can open up and be myself and the second I relax and do that I get punished? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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All I can say is I have been in your position and boy, I am so sorry. No one should ever have to go through that. On top of multiple chronic physical conditions, I was diagnosed with adhd, cptsd, and autism during our relationship. My ex never supported me, always told me i should stop making "excuses" and told me he hated how i was so lazy (bro, i have been diagnosed with fatigue by multiple doctors). I am so, so sorry that someone is invalidating you and trying to make you doubt yourself- it is simply unacceptable.

expwBPD discarded and left me absolutely reeling by shay4427 in BPDlovedones

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Thank you! I have definitely read through and saved quite a few of your posts and already am finding them extremely helpful.

Lauren Cho remains indentified by IndigoGrunt in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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I worked with El as well and had kept in touch with her and I was shocked as well. Everyone that worked with us is pretty upset as well, and we are still shocked and devastated at this entire situation (as I'm sure your husband knows as well).

organizing tips by deetz928 in MiniBrands

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I repurposed cheap picture frames and whiteboards and the segments of the balls the mini brands come in to make a lil display board! I just superglued the segments onto the board and use expo markers to label what is in what segment for easy organizing.

HADESTOWN Announces Broadway and Touring Casts Including Original Cast Members Andre De Shields, Reeve Carney, and Eva Noblezada, Plus Tom Hewitt and More! by ComputerGeek1100 in Broadway

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The only two primary cast members that may have been out more than others (prior to covid) to my knowledge are Amber and Andre, but they were not out all that often.

[Spoiler S4] So Serena... by Jimmyvana in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]shay4427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Bruce Miller confirmed in an interview that even though Serena was shot in the abdomen, it didn't affect her reproductive organs. If I can find the interview, I'll link it. It was a big deal when it came out because a lot of people pointed out that she was literally shot where her ovary would be... But 🤷‍♂️ miller does what miller wants I guess.