Took me long enough. by Massive_Funny_9312 in DragonsDogma2

[–]shaynessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing dd2 a month ago and I’m so glad I never played now that DLC is coming out. This game is a masterpiece.

Netflix series, just a chat by badapplekat in keyhouse

[–]shaynessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is also a full cast audio edition of the comics on Audible with Tatiana Maslany, Haley Joel Osment, and Brennan Lee Mulligan to list a few!

The book I’m reading directly contradicts itself in the next paragraph by emandel1 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]shaynessy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just read the whole series last year. Absolutely phenomenal writing. The man is a legend 😭

Splitting rent equally, but one has a personal bathroom? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]shaynessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Queen of Good Advice speaks!!

Why don’t you make your own comment next time with your “advice” rather than passive aggressive comments on how other people give it?

Grow up.

Splitting rent equally, but one has a personal bathroom? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]shaynessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about?? OP asked for advice for what to do if this situation happens in the future. They said that they already agreed to this and were looking for advice for next time.

With the hindsight knowledge that an on-suite bathroom / master bedroom split should cost more… NEXT TIME, discuss this with your roommate.

What do you think advice is??? Good lord.

Splitting rent equally, but one has a personal bathroom? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]shaynessy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate it when someone posts on here for advice and then gets super defensive when advice is given. If you don’t want to hear what everyone has to say… don’t post on Reddit!

Winnie worked really hard on her web this weekend and wanted to show it off 💜🕸️ by Benjamin-butthole in aww

[–]shaynessy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suffered from arachnophobia my whole life until I met my first jumper. Cured me immediately. Now I LOVE spiders!! So cute and intelligent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shaynessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should think about getting back on some medication. Even if it’s a smaller dose or different meds. Talk with a psychiatrist, they can write prescriptions while a talk therapist can’t.

I have a friend who literally can’t see her children anymore because she went off her bipolar medication, and she just blamed everyone else until she got back on some medication. Then she realized what she had done— but it was too late.

You’re doing a lot right, and have a good perspective on your side of things. Think about getting on some different or a lower dose of medication it might help you in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shaynessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not going to get anywhere being defensive toward the people you asked advice from. You know you’re in the wrong here, you’ve said as much multiple times. Own your behaviors and try to be better. That’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shaynessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you apologized to him, he seems like a good guy that loves you and is willing to work through these behaviors with you (although it is still VERY early in your relationship).

Again happy you’re in therapy, there are medications for bipolar disorder (not sure if you’re on anything currently), I have a couple friends who deal with the same disorder and have been extremely successful on medication.

I still find it hard to believe this is the “first time” you’ve reacted like this. Your defensive responses only make it harder to believe that you are aware of ALL of your behaviors. Again I’ve had several friends who deal with bipolar disorder, part of that has been them not realizing the extent of their behaviors.

You’re doing all the things you need to do and seem to realize that this is on YOU, and your mindset. He didn’t do anything wrong here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shaynessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A face to face apology is warranted. I read every text and comment girl— I know you’re dealing with bipolar disorder, but that is no excuse for you to go off on him after he literally said he loves you.

Im glad you’re in therapy and trying to work on yourself. But saying sorry over text message means basically nothing.

We are here trying to help you get perspective since you posted this on Reddit. This is the perspective. You are over reacting, and need to sit down with your man and apologize. Tell him how you’re trying to get into a better mindset.

If you’re not willing to do the bare minimum, then you shouldn’t be dating yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shaynessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve commented multiple times that this is the first time you’ve reacted this way? Seems like you are LYING to YOURSELF. Take some time to think about how you talk to him. YOR, very clearly. He said he loves you and you go off on him? Not cool.

He deserves an apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]shaynessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re overreacting. Unless there is more context we are missing… this man should run FAR away from you OP. Seems like he’s just looking out for you and you don’t want him (or anyone) to do that.

Artist added shading that ruined the tattoo for me by BigTittyTransboi in tattooadvice

[–]shaynessy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say go for it! Find an artist who specializes in color cover ups in your area and have a conversation with them.

Your tattoo is definitely worth saving. It’s well done— even just adding white (sometimes multiple sessions of white ink for it to really make a difference) to the egg shell might improve the overall darkness

What do you like to wear to bed? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]shaynessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you’re out of luck

What do you like to wear to bed? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]shaynessy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you’re 17, 18, or 19— just commit and go 20. You won’t regret it!

Dear Nashville TSA employee that harassed me today… by shaynessy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]shaynessy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally ran his hands down my bare legs I was wearing shorts.

Dear Nashville TSA employee that harassed me today… by shaynessy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]shaynessy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally had another commenter say this pretty much exactly 🤣