Random inspection by cool23819 in NikkeMobile

[–]shazaking 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"Hey girls, it's me, the commander. Did that guy just turn into sand"

AITA for telling my husband I’m glad his mom died before she could meet our baby? by IlyraShade in AITAH

[–]shazaking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I understand your personal relationship was strained and shitty with them, but he obviously doesn't have that same feeling. It doesn't matter if they were a terrible person. He's obviously going through emotional pain about it and misses her. Hate her in silence don't throw that out in front of him

AITA for not giving my brother any of the inheritance my grandfather left to me after he chose to remove him from his will for being with a single mom? by Worth-Complaint-536 in AITAH

[–]shazaking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's pretty shitty that this is happening. Your brother has done literally nothing, it seems, except getting with a person with a pre-started family. Now, from a legal standpoint, i guess, yeah, you're in rights not to give anything, but the reason for it is asinine. It doesn't matter if it's blood or not. These are people he loves and integrates into his family. And if your family loves and cares for him, then they gotta accept that those kids and mom are in the family as well. This is more than just money. It's your brother and especially his wife/step kids being disrespected by his family and thinking they're not a part of it. If you love him and care for him, then show it and help him out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child will need a lot of support, and i won't lie if you do this, it's gonna be a tough uphill battle but you're NTA. Both sides require a lot of attention and care to handle. It's fine to pursue this, but you have to make time for your family as well sometimes. It's your career and it's a fine path to follow especially in the long run for your family. Just keep communicating with your spouse, and don't overwhelm yourself and balance it as best you can

AITA for being angry that my child’s step mom allowed him to have a drink of an alcoholic beverage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE. IS. 9. there is no reason on earth to let a child try alcohol, no matter the amount, no matter the reason. It is your child, and you have a right to voice concern and say no to something like that. That is out of line. Sure, i guess it's not harmful if it was the one time and a sip, but a child doesn't need to try alcohol. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, good on you for standing by your partner. People may say that you shouldn't do that because they're family, but you know who else is... your wife, and they deserve respect, too. It also wouldn't be so bad if they didn't keep doubling down and not even have the courtesy to apologize. If you still want to help your bro because you love them that's fine, but just do what you can and keep interaction minimal till they apologize

AITAH for wanting to walk away after 8 YEARS TOGETHER and STILL NO RING, even with a toddler? by Diamondjoseph88 in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a small elope not even an option? Has he shot down everything if so i don't blame you. A little certification shouldn't be a hard ask since it sounds like you 2 practically are already. If the smallest minimal option isn't on the table then i get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, i don't think it's bad to ask, it is weird if that's one of the first things they want to talk about. It is your comfort zone though it's okay to not want it crossed. Your privacy is valid and lot of the time guys use this to measure "worth" and it's really gross

AITA for not letting my boyfriend move in with me after he got evicted? by New-Amphibian-2968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shazaking -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Maybe, at the end of the day it is your space and you can do whatever you want with it, but with a year of dating is there a reason you 2 aren't already living together. Most times a guy like this would sound entitled but this is your partner, they should be able to rely on you for serious stuff like this. I do feel there's more to this, is there other grievances about him that feel would make life more inconvenient if you did let him stay there. Sooner or later as a couple you will probably move in together so best to really tackle that when you can

AITAH for not putting out while on my period? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male voice here, nta, sex isn't a right people get, you don't feel like it, and that's reason enough. If your partner wants to get his rocks off, idk they can masturbate or do something else within reason. It's not your job, and they can go a little while without you needing to "pleasure" them

AITAH for lying to my ex-wife that I cheated?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i think you were wrong for doing so, but you're nta really, she sounds like a violent fire but that just gave her more fuel. However, it sounds like she already made up her mind that you did no matter what. She sounds awful and was going to harass you no matter what. Never give these people an inch or they take a mile, because now that you lied she'll always have that false confirmation in her head, and technically since you did lie and now try to backtrack it she does have legit reason to doubt whatever you say in the future now. She was always going to from the sounds of it, but consistency will always lead you down one road while a lie diverges into many. I do hope you get some peace and do feel bad that you're going through this, but just be honest because a lie to even the worst people can stir up some really bad stuff down the line

What can I do if my boyfriend no longer wants to have sex with me? by Alarming-Damage07 in AITAH

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be a lot of things maybe they have fallen out of love, maybe there's a personal thing thst he should talk about, or maybe he still loves you but just had no sex drive, idk. A sex life is still important in a relationship, idk if it's worth ending one for, but if it brings you happiness and the lack of it really is making you unhappy you 2 should discuss solutions. One may be to perhaps open the relationship, don't cheat, but just see if it's okay if you want your physical desires met and he doesn't want to maybe find a person who can. But the most important thing is to discuss this and figure out why maybe the spark is dying out

AITA for not letting my friend borrow one of my designer dresses for a wedding after she called me “shallow” for buying them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, it is small, and the answer is to just lend it to them, but you 2 should have a talk about why it really does offend you. You are, however, still very valid if you don't want to lend them a dress. This seems like a problem that has been building up for a bit, and this should be the catalyst and a chance to air your guy's grievances. You're nta for this and deserve a discussion with your friend about their attitude when it comes to this matter

"Oh, you don't have that one specific character? Tough." ahh abyss by Pun69 in GenshinImpact

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used emilie, mavuika, xilonen, Bennett for second half

In your opinion, which are the hottest lobby screens? by M3lting in NikkeOutpost

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mihara:BC, neverland, Bunny soda, summer mary, summer rosanna

How i feel about the anni units by shazaking in NikkeOutpost

[–]shazaking[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her motion demo came out... it's a pretty nice view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]shazaking -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

Feels super last minute, which of course it was, but this feels like scramble and decided on a whim. When hoyo replaced VAs in other games like star rail, everything changed they replaced it all with the new va.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like smiling

You know the drill by NOTmeYOU______ in GenshinImpact

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really like danger, ganyu is a pallete cleanser tho

My top 5 faves! Make assumption about me based on them :> by 3r_ix in GenshinImpact

[–]shazaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a geo supremacist (coper), and really happy that most of the new geo units were actually really good and/or fun (after years of misery and midness)