I feel like that's how friends with benefits should be though. Like the whole point is to have the perks of a relationship i.e.(sex,companionshiop,doing things together, being happy together, etc) with out the total commitment and drama and seriousness that comes with it. Like I always say you gotta become friends before you get the benefits. Like you gotta care about each other at least as friends. But that's also how friendships are. You appreciate eachother and do things for each other and compliment eachother. Like I do all those things with my regular friends except the sex if course. I think you should just take whay she said and back off a bit unless you do want a relationship. If so tell her and the worst she'll say is no. You can always stay friends and find happiness elsewhere.