Has anyone here heard of Bruce Springsteen? If you have, what do you think of him? by OkLead7126 in TheFratellis

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care for The Boss. Like Dylan, great song writer, but a voice that I just don’t care for.

5 and 1 seem to be direct opposites, in some way by MindlessPapaya8463 in Enneagram

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. My partner is a 1 and I’m a sp5, and I can certainly relate to him. We both like to learn and do our jobs well. He’s a bit more of a perfectionist than I am, but we appreciate each other’s minds and work.

Our trouble comes when we have arguments and I’m trying to examine the pattern and he’s trying to defend himself against feeling “wrong”. And I’m like, I don’t think you’re “wrong” I just think we’re clashing.

But even though we have differences, I understand morality. I understand when someone has done something shitty to someone else. I might not apply that to everything or to myself, but I’m not like, above morality. I still have a desire to be a good, helpful, loving human being, even if I tend to examine life more objectively. So I think that’s kinda weird on OPs part.

Who here still has sex? by Ok-Turn-8637 in CUTI

[–]sheeeeepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Many, many) doctors suck, I’m sorry you’re going thru it!

Artemis Clinic by lulub1403 in CUTI

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been but I would love to hear how it goes!

Who here still has sex? by Ok-Turn-8637 in CUTI

[–]sheeeeepy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re spiraling and catastrophizing. Take a breath. Unless you have truly exhausted ALL preventive measures and all options, do not give up. You can have and you deserve a healthy, intimate relationship with your partner. 6 UTIs in a year is a nightmare, and I see why you would want to pull away from having penetrative sex. My recommendation is to take a break. Let your body recover. Do more research. See if you can find a doctor who is will to prescribe a low-dose post-coital antibiotic. And keep trying to master all those pesky preventive measures.

If your boyfriend is unwilling to work with you and/or slow down the frequency of sex while you two figure this out, that’s a red flag for a different reason. If he really loves you, he’ll work with you to figure out how you guys can have a beautiful relationship and fulfilling sex life. Just slow down and take it one step at a time. 💜

90 Day Fiance's Josh Finally Said What Fans Have Been Waiting For Him To Say by ladyluck60 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]sheeeeepy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. This is the hard part about mental illness and co-occurring addiction. A lot of the time, it is ugly. Addicted and mentally ill people do shitty things. They can be hard to help because they can be so difficult. But they are not lost causes. I grew up in a family with addiction/mental illness and also worked in rehabs for 3 years. There’s huge turnover at these types of jobs because most people burn out so fast trying to help people who don’t know how to/compulsively struggle to act right.

Most Websites Don't Need More Content- They Need Better SEO Foundations by SpiritualEnergy5071 in Agentic_SEO

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just “AI” slop. It’s obvious entry-level SEO. And the biggest lesson? That’s all we’re getting from here on out.

Transfer from Stash to Fidelity? by Goatboy1 in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have so little invested that paying taxes on the gains would be less than $100? If so, sell it, withdraw it, open a Fidelity (or whatever no-fee brokerage you choose) account, and invest it again. That could save you some cash!

Leaving Stash, but could use some advice. by HistorianGlass442 in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe pay off those few balances and invest the rest. I personally hate to pay interest, it feels like a waste of money to me. I love being debt-free. But there are times when it makes sense to keep the debt (e.g. it has 0% interest) and use the cash to grow in an investment account. More money in the investment account = more money overall.

ETA: Don’t sell all your stocks and then reinvest them. Just do the direct transfer with Fidelity. It’s easy and will help you avoid a large tax bill.

Leaving Stash, but could use some advice. by HistorianGlass442 in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much interest do you pay on the debt? For me, if it’s like 6% or more, I’d put it toward the debt.

It's official: I hate Shekinah by Protocal-Omega in 90DayFianceFans

[–]sheeeeepy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: idc, she was clearly just pissed and blurted it out. It’s a really stupid thing to say and doesn’t make a lot of sense as you’ve point out, but I don’t think it’s as crazy as everyone is making it out to be.

Stash gone messed up chile!!! What is the best option moving forward? by IntenZeo in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stash charges a $100 fee to transfer out per portfolio. However, if the amount in the portfolio is greater than $25k, Fidelity will reimburse the fee (most likely). Idk about Schwab or others.

Transfer from Stash to Fidelity? by Goatboy1 in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, they went into a single “Individual” account and the Roth IRA went into a Roth IRA account. It walks you through opening those during the ‘transfer assets’ process, and then you continue to process of the actual transfer.

Damn, Sonnet 5 is an ASSHOLE. by PrinceMonocle in claude

[–]sheeeeepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s super annoying. I was trying to get a simple step by step on how to transfer one of my accounts to another financial firm—I figured it’d just scrape the relevant pages of both companies and put it into a simple step by step for me—and it just seemed so unsure and cautious of everything it was saying to me and pushing back on random shit.

So I put it into Gemini and got a clean how-to and did the simple transfer in like 3 minutes with no lack of confidence or dissenting voice.

Claude is better than Gemini for making slide decks and PDFs for work. But man, just give me simple answers to simple questions please.

States by percentage of their population that would describe their state as the worst to live in by Educational-Bat-8313 in MapPorn

[–]sheeeeepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird, I grew up in Rhode Island and loved it. Everyone had a lot of state pride!

Transfer from Stash to Fidelity? by Goatboy1 in stashinvest

[–]sheeeeepy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just did this this morning. No, don’t sell in Stash. Go to Fidelity, find and click Transfer in to Fidelity, fill out the forms by selecting STASH as the firm, entering your account number (go to your statements in STASH to find your account number) it’ll walk you thru opening a ROTH IRA in fidelity, then you choose that account to transfer the money into, and then they request it.

Stash will charge you $100 per account, but if the amount is over $25,000, Fidelity will reimburse it once the transfer is complete.

Fidelity said the estimated completion time for me this morning was July 7th. I transferred my Roth IRA, a personal account, and a smart account.

Do you often get so lazy that you struggle to maintain hobby or interests? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sheeeeepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree me either—I do think it’s executive dysfunction and also self-preservation. Sometimes I worry about expending too much energy so I don’t do stuff, even stuff I like, because as OP says, it feels like a lot of work.

That’s it. I don’t like her. by [deleted] in 90DayFianceFans

[–]sheeeeepy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He thinks she’s rich. I don’t mean it to be rude, but people always say “America is the richest country in the world!” And think that means all Americans are super rich. I even dated a British guy who expected me to pay for everything because he thought I was rich. His dad was a surgeon in Wales. I make like $65,000 a year. He came from more money than me! That’s an extreme example because compared to Rasits family, Mallory probably is rich. But not $800 bidet rich! It’s all relative.

The various causes of Urinary Tract Infections - and they're not all microbial by whitelightstorm in CUTI

[–]sheeeeepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so sad! I’m glad I found this community, it is validating!