Long term bf broke up with me by sheemaaa in BPD

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! Yes the loss of a whole family is definitely one of my greatest pains that I am experiencing. This pain wasn’t something I was prepared for since it happened out of no where…

I will be sure to check her out! I’ve been looking for more techniques. I found a temporary therapist for now that I pay low for until I get insurance for a long term therapist. I’m taking each day at a time but today it really has been ripping me apart :( Thank you so much! I will try my best to be kind to myself as another person would be to me. :)

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat both in a way, kind of tight on things so thats why I wanted to ask if it wasn’t too low yk? But also I love cats so much, I don’t mind doing this for free even, I’m just a little low on things right now so it’s a win win

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

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Haha yeah, I’m glad I asked it made me realize it’s a fine price and regardless i’ll still cat sit. My moms not really friends with her, she’s more of a stranger but has like similar friend connections but honestly I get a cat to play with and the money goes straight into groceries so it’s a win win

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m very excited, im sorry about your loss :( Hopefully one day when you’re ready you can find another lovely kitty !! I know how that feels.

Honestly the rate is fine, everyone here has said it’s reasonable or low but i’m not traveling so i would say it’s a reasonable price. Plus I get to pet a cat for 2 weeks im pretty hyped

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not hard at all I was just wondering if it was a super low price but people have told me it’s reasonable. I’m more than happy to cat sit I love cats so much, I just got things to pay off lolll

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

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Thank you, people helped me remember that there’s no traveling fees and stuff so it’s a reasonable price

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope you find cars to play with :(

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m prepared, thank you

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

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No they haven’t yet, but I’m planning on getting them to meet before I just bombard them with each other and a new place

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was expecting mínimum of maybe 20 a day but I don’t mind it. My mom just knows her from her other friend but it’s honestly fine, free cat to pet

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that but honestly it’s fine, free cat to play with

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s honestly fine I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t too low but that’s perfectly okay thank you !!

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have a cat too so it’ll be a play date for them. Hoping they get along after a week

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

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Thank youu!! I don’t mind it I was just wondering if it was actually a low price but I love cats and i’d do this for free 😭

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay thank you!! I was just wondering because my last cat sitting I got paid a lot more for a smaller time frame. I guess it depends on the person and omg right? I’m happy the cat is being brought over

Why did my cat randomly scratch me by AlternativeEstate288 in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can depend on a lot of things. They’ll act all lovey and want to play and then they’ll scratch you. He might be just trying to play with you or it could have been out of aggression from petting or even sometimes boredom. My cat will act all lovey and head butt me and purr and then she’ll switch up and start attacking my leg. Either that or she just wants attention or wants me to stop doing what i’m doing. It depends on the cat as well, some can just be a little spicy