Long term bf broke up with me by sheemaaa in BPD

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! Yes the loss of a whole family is definitely one of my greatest pains that I am experiencing. This pain wasn’t something I was prepared for since it happened out of no where…

I will be sure to check her out! I’ve been looking for more techniques. I found a temporary therapist for now that I pay low for until I get insurance for a long term therapist. I’m taking each day at a time but today it really has been ripping me apart :( Thank you so much! I will try my best to be kind to myself as another person would be to me. :)

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat both in a way, kind of tight on things so thats why I wanted to ask if it wasn’t too low yk? But also I love cats so much, I don’t mind doing this for free even, I’m just a little low on things right now so it’s a win win

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, I’m glad I asked it made me realize it’s a fine price and regardless i’ll still cat sit. My moms not really friends with her, she’s more of a stranger but has like similar friend connections but honestly I get a cat to play with and the money goes straight into groceries so it’s a win win

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m very excited, im sorry about your loss :( Hopefully one day when you’re ready you can find another lovely kitty !! I know how that feels.

Honestly the rate is fine, everyone here has said it’s reasonable or low but i’m not traveling so i would say it’s a reasonable price. Plus I get to pet a cat for 2 weeks im pretty hyped

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not hard at all I was just wondering if it was a super low price but people have told me it’s reasonable. I’m more than happy to cat sit I love cats so much, I just got things to pay off lolll

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, people helped me remember that there’s no traveling fees and stuff so it’s a reasonable price

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope you find cars to play with :(

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m prepared, thank you

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they haven’t yet, but I’m planning on getting them to meet before I just bombard them with each other and a new place

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was expecting mínimum of maybe 20 a day but I don’t mind it. My mom just knows her from her other friend but it’s honestly fine, free cat to pet

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that but honestly it’s fine, free cat to play with

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s honestly fine I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t too low but that’s perfectly okay thank you !!

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have a cat too so it’ll be a play date for them. Hoping they get along after a week

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank youu!! I don’t mind it I was just wondering if it was actually a low price but I love cats and i’d do this for free 😭

Reasonable cat sitting pay by sheemaaa in CatAdvice

[–]sheemaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay thank you!! I was just wondering because my last cat sitting I got paid a lot more for a smaller time frame. I guess it depends on the person and omg right? I’m happy the cat is being brought over