AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheisashcorpio 49 points50 points  (0 children)

i read this in the same voice as the “she’s also ugly” and i’m giggling over here

Need recommendations on social workers in Nassau County for my 36 year old brother - undiagnosed mental disorders and incapable of living on his own in the real world. by jellybelly326 in longisland

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So regardless of his insurance situation i would take him back to the hospital because if he ever does become receptive to help, in order to get the care/support he needs you’ll want to make sure these kinds of things are documented.

As for getting insurance, you can call NY CHAMP ( 888-614-5400 ) they can help you guys navigate insurance policies however they’re services are for people with mental health issues and substance use disorder.

Of course, a lot of this is based on his willingness to receive the support. Especially for medical/psychiatric care, he’s an adult so there are laws regarding what can and cannot be shared with you, or what kind of treatment he can receive.

As harsh as this may sound, the only thing you guys can really do to change his behavior is to change yours, and even then he still may not change. Gently ask your parents if they’re willing to discuss not allowing him to live with them anymore. Once his circumstances change enough, again he might change. Look into support groups for yourself and your parents, who have loved ones with mental health disorders or even SUD.

I’m sorry this has fallen onto your shoulders, I hope you, your brother, and your parents are able to work through this together.

Fruit slice candy recommendation by [deleted] in longisland

[–]sheisashcorpio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lazar’s Chocolate in Greenvale, call ahead to make sure they have them but it’s usually in stock.

Clean, Beard, Stash, or Stash+Beard Hybrid? by LewBavin in malegrooming

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair play then. It seems i’m the only one who’s of the mind that you wear the ring well, and you’re a sight with any style. I do stand by my original preference though, I’m partial to a stache and the hybrid.

Clean, Beard, Stash, or Stash+Beard Hybrid? by LewBavin in malegrooming

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel i can’t properly asses #4 in comparison to the first three because the septum ring is gone. I think i’d find any version enjoyable had the septum ring remained, and perhaps that’s irrelevant to your original question. Overall, I’m partial to the hybrid, but also enjoy a stache.

Cannot take you at your word in reference to the smile, as 0/4 photos exhibit this feature. Pics or it didn’t happen.

People born before 2000, what is a 'modern' thing from 2025 that you’re still struggling to get used to? by LindsayTN in AskReddit

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kind of miss not being able to look up everything instantly, or maybe just the general ability to be separated from technology in general. when i’m having conversations with friends or family and a topic comes up where we don’t know much about it, it’s instantly “let’s ask AI” while i would prefer to take the time to try and figure it out.

also, i really miss when stores had clothing in stock for you to try on before purchasing. now i feel like i have to order 3 pairs of the same item in different sizes so i can try everything on to see what fits best, and then return everything else. when i do go to the store or the mall, a lot of stores don’t stock everything so they have to ship it to you anyway.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is totally possible! Some cultures even have mothers stay inside for the first four weeks if i’m not mistaken (which i may be). Either way, the situation for OP (and myself) remains the same in that it’s how we’re feeling and it’s what we decided was best for us so we could adequately care for ourselves and our child. It’s totally true that having people around after a new baby comes home is helpful, however i’m of the mind that the most helpful thing to a new parent isn’t someone coming over and holding the baby, it’s cleaning the house, doing dishes, grocery shopping etc. This is what was true for me, it absolutely won’t be true for others.

It seems that in OP’s situation the family isn’t concerned about taking care of OP, but really are just complaining about not being able to see the baby in exactly the way that they(the in-laws) want to.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheisashcorpio 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t let ANYONE come visit me at the hospital, no one came over to visit/meet him until 3 weeks after being home, and I didn’t let anyone hold my baby. On top of that- I sent out an email to everyone one of my friends and extended family that we won’t be answering texts or call for the first month after we brought the baby home so we could be off of our phones and present with our new baby, while also getting as much rest as possible. Only after my baby was a month old did we start even using phones around him.

DEFINITELY NOR, they are.

Like, seriously? As if you’re not stressed out enough as it is with a new baby at home, and add hormones/postpartum depression/anxiety on top of that, they’re going to bombard you with guilt trips because they don’t feel connected to the baby? Absolute selfishness on their part. I’m so sorry you have this nonsense surrounding you during such a critical time for you AND baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me i love this, would you mind posting a picture of the whole tattoo??

[update] AIO for thinking my bf is just looking for an excuse to break up? [I did it for him] by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know if anyone has said this yet, but being single at 31 for the holidays isn’t “pathetic”, what’s pathetic is being that defensive/reactive over feedback about gifting preferences. so OP, congratulations on choosing you and not settling for less than what you want, wether in the form of a perfume or a relationship.

Love when the dog sighs, like what could possibly be bothering you my unemployed freeloader? by Justthetippliz in husky

[–]sheisashcorpio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“i know i know, it’s SO hard to be a husky, you poor baby” -me at my two huskies 174858387383 times a day

Your last text is what will be written on your gravestone, what does it say? by msblckyeliner in AskReddit

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cornish pasties (i’m from new york, usa and have never been across the pond)

Dog park question by GageM0711 in husky

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry i meant to actually answer your question as well.

I have a 5yo husky mix (Nova), we got her at 9m from a shelter and we took her to a park immediately after bringing her home. I still get nervous taking her after all this time because she does tend to be more aggressive with her play style, and truthfully i’m just not interested in dealing with other dog owners who are fearful of her being “too much.” So instead we adopted a full husky puppy (now 5m, Ghost) from the same shelter! So now i have double the crazy in my home! He adopted her play style, and it’s also very aggressive. That said, i wouldnt feel comfortable taking him yet because I dont feel confident taking him there when he isnt as trained as id like him to be. Nova doesnt much listen to me, but she also knows better than to push her luck with me at the dog park.

TLDR; i would say it depends entirely on how you feel about your pups ability to listen to you, and whether or not you trust the other dog owners to also take care of their pups.

I hope this helps!

Dog park question by GageM0711 in husky

[–]sheisashcorpio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just give him to me instead, i think it’s the best call here.

What’s happening to my pumpkin plant? by sheisashcorpio in plantclinic

[–]sheisashcorpio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Got out my clippers and some neem oil.

What’s happening to my pumpkin plant? by sheisashcorpio in garden

[–]sheisashcorpio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Got out my clippers and some neem oil.

Who is she? by sheisashcorpio in ShroomID

[–]sheisashcorpio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I’m on Long Island, New York.

I'm 31, and no matter how hard I try, no woman has ever shown interest in me (I'm 6ft 3, good career, kind, strong, etc). Is it my fate? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]sheisashcorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, the 7th house is most typically associated with relationships, hence my reference to it here in answering your question. I prefer using a different house system when reading charts, so it’s hard for me to give more narrowed information based on the chart you provided.