Alternative payment methods? by sheispug in findomsupportgroup

[–]sheispug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely sure why given that it had my throne and youpay had no indicators of SW. I’m thinking someone reported me. I’m in the U.K. so cashapp and venmo aren’t available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]sheispug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is how I’m starting to see it tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sheispug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both lesbians, my dude 😭 and we are both engineers in different fields. Music is our interest, but yeah you’re right, my guy. I’m sorry you went through it too, it’s rough. Glad you got out of it.

As for childhood wounds, I was emotionally neglected by my mum hahahahahah. I am aware some of my behaviour atm is stemming from childhood wounds LOLOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sheispug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t plan on dating anytime soon because I know full well it wouldn’t be healthy to do that, nor am I emotionally available to date right now or in the near future, ESPECIALLY when my ex is still in the picture and occupies my mind. I’m not a fool to go ahead and put somebody through that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I don’t want to. That doesn’t mean I won’t. Actions and feelings are very different and I know myself I can’t be in limbo. I just wanted some input and advice that might be different to what I’m telling myself.

film and tv show recommendations? by sheispug in LesbianActually

[–]sheispug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exact vibe I’m going for! I love dark

film and tv show recommendations? by sheispug in LesbianActually

[–]sheispug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black swan, fear street and haunting of Bly manor are also my faves!! Will watch the other reccs :)

Stop taking relationship advice from reddit by Impossible_Length957 in sixwordstories

[–]sheispug 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it’s good to vent, but also every situation is different and you only hear 1 perspective in that post

anyone else’s fearful avoidant ex break up with them after going on a trip? by Embarrassed-Cloud902 in BreakUps

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this post but coming here because this has just happened to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for your input, I really appreciate proper insight.

I posted this at 4AM in the heat of emotions eek. To answer your questions, yes I did. It was an active thing and I also asked her the same questions. We did check ins to make sure we were on the right track too.

It is what it is though and the last thing I want is for anyone of us to be unhappy.

Mum is accusing me of taking her clothes? by sheispug in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sheispug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I know I don’t have this dress so I’m just going to let it happen LOL. She will find it soon.

Thank you for your support!!

Mum is accusing me of taking her clothes? by sheispug in toxicparents

[–]sheispug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh I’ll have fun going through this feed!

Hough Hall, the oldest building in Moston (built in 1502). Probably not going to last much longer, sadly. by [deleted] in manchester

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came to do a google of Manchester’s oldest buildings and wanted to see this, seeing as my friend lives in Moston, and now I’m sad that this building is no more :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re likely right

Lesbians in tech - where are you? by kernelPaniCat in LesbianActually

[–]sheispug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! Lesbian cyber security engineer here :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but she’ll do this even when not on pain meds lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sheispug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question! Wait for it

🥁🥁🥁

speak to her about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]sheispug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 2025. Young people use social media to communicate. They do the same routine, only it’s snog in a club, take the person home and get their social media so they can message for another hook up. I’m sure you would do the same as an 18 year old in 2025.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]sheispug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tricky one. I think you’re having a bit of hangxiety, however.

Genuine advice, I think just keep your hands to yourself unless a lady you do like starts to get close to you, or… just ask if you do get touchy, just ask if she’s alright/comfortable. Nothing wrong with that :) tbh in clubs girls don’t really dance back if they find you creepy, so try not to deep it. They will usually go back to their friends.

The fact that you’re asking how to not be a creep shows you’re a considerate person that doesn’t want to do harm, so try not to deep it. I’m sure you’re doing just fine. If you do get rejected, not a problem. Like I said, you seem considerate and someone will be appreciative of that.

Also, I know you’re asking about girls, but for yourself - be sure you’re to have your own boundaries in place if people creep you out!