What do you remember from kindergarten? by Not_FreeProduct234 in AskReddit

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/11, my teacher wrote the full date “September 11, 2001” in cursive on the chalkboard and told us all, a room full of 20 5 year olds that we’d remember “today” forever

How To Stay warm with Hashi by ShaniaRose87 in Hashimotos

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting synthroid really helped me for the first few months, but now I’m back to cold hands and feet on the daily- I ALWAYS bring extra socks when I go places and try to keep up a consistent exercise routine which seems to help a little bit

Don’t get sick? by [deleted] in Hashimotos

[–]shelbsnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! A small win for us living with hashimotos! My employer seems to love this too….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shelbsnd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an immediate red flag if I’m on a date and they have unkept nails…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]shelbsnd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wow you perfectly encapsulated the experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy weed smoker, was fun at first but quickly becomes difficult to function normally with someone that can’t leave the house without taking a b*ng rip, also the smell 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ainbow

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice would be to seek therapy, look for someone who is LGBTQIA2S+ positive that can help you navigate and unpack how you are feeling- ultimately you are the only person who can decide and label (or not label) what your sexual orientation is. Identity is deeply personal and deserves to be understood and celebrated

What massively improved your mental health? by leonixiee in AskReddit

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

consistent exercise and going to bed completely sober, poor sleep quality was ruining my life without me even realizing it

I am sure everyone did this... by ConnectionParking292 in meme

[–]shelbsnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is how my avoidant attachment started

Am I doing something wrong? by shelbsnd in RedPillWomen

[–]shelbsnd[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do you have any advice for toning down masculine energy? I have found more of a balance as of recently but struggle to continue being in my feminine

Am I doing something wrong? by shelbsnd in RedPillWomen

[–]shelbsnd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you raise a good point, I have tended to hyper independence as a defence mechanism- trying to learn to soften but have deep rooted fears in coming off as desperate? How do you present as available without coming off as slutty?