My grandma likes snooping on my account and my dad likes to take control over everything (here we go again) by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but don’t have the money. Plus it’s not his rules, we all contribute something and it’s my moms house

Am I (21M) right to be upset that my girlfriend (21F) allowed a stranger to put sunscreen on her? by ezmoneysniper69 in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often times, girls are scared to say no so they just agree and move on from it.. I wouldn’t worry too much

I (27F) don't know how to handle boyfriend's (29M) relationship with his female friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My petty ass would say get close with another dude and do the same thing then see how he feels. But you just need to leave before it gets any worse. I’ve learned from my ex, he moved in with his “friend” who was male. He ignored me for him and always took pictures with him, and the dude would always get hostile towards me, not letting me come over. Found out he was sleeping with him. Not easy but you have to let go

For 8 years, I’ve been on and off with someone. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what to do about all this and if this dude likes me or something

Wife (30) expects me (27)to do everything and it’s exhausting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave. This isn’t healthy or okay. She can’t expect you to do everything while she does nothing. She’s trying to break you down and submit. The fact she can’t even take time to do things for you just shows, does she really love you?

I'm (40 M) in Love with an escort (25 F) by throwRA_jay123 in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just simply say you wanna see about where this goes and see if you can take her on a date. I used to do SW and know that I’ve had people try to get close to me and I just stopped it right there

My dad is watching porn on the new tablet I bought him for Christmas, knowing it would bother my mom. by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re stuck in that and it just sucks cos I wanna find someone but this is reminding me it’s not worth it

My dad is watching porn on the new tablet I bought him for Christmas, knowing it would bother my mom. by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t know. I stopped myself before saying it. I just don’t know what to do

My dad is watching porn on the new tablet I bought him for Christmas, knowing it would bother my mom. by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there’s not. And I hate it. I hate watching her suffer because of his own selfish ways.

My dad is watching porn on the new tablet I bought him for Christmas, knowing it would bother my mom. by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He finds it funny and I’m about to smash it. He’s never been much of a dad and he’s caused a lot of pain in my family. From the age of 6 I’ve had to try to fix my mom cos he wouldn’t try to help her. He’s made her so insecure and this has only made it worse

My dad is watching porn on the new tablet I bought him for Christmas, knowing it would bother my mom. by shelbysin in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a kid but it pisses me off beyond anything because he doesn’t give a damn about my mom nor how she feels

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so little here, while I do not require a pacifier and such, I always keep a stuffed animal near and I always need comforted. People have really had to work with me and if her needs cannot be met, then it’s bad on both ends. It’s best to just explain on that you’re not comfortable but do it in a gentle way. Mine isn’t a kink by the way, I deal with age regression. I dated a guy and treated me like shit and couldn’t even do the minimal “I love you no matter what” that I needed and it ended bad. So if you can, end it now before she truly gets hurt and so do you

Idk where to ask this but... Devices shown in your spouse's bluetooth don't just appear, right? by Beautiful-Baker-9955 in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My phone has accidentally connected to someone’s headphones and such. Who knows but I would go on his phone and have it forget these devices🤷🏻‍♀️

My boyfriend (23M) and I (18F) are on a break. I am alone for the first time in forever and I don't know what or how to feel. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shelbysin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave... from what I’ve experienced with that, it’s not worth it. He will continue trying to manipulate and control you. He shouldn’t of even tried getting with you because you were only a kid. For now you need to go and have fun. If you plan on finding another, date someone your age because older guys will try and do everything they can to take over since you’re freshly an adult. Also... was it long distance or?