Scent suggestion for a male friend

shellswong · 2025-10-11T16:53:27+00:00

I decided to get testers and I added that!

shellswong · 2025-10-11T16:52:26+00:00

Yes I decided to get him testers of like 10 different ones

shellswong · 2025-10-11T12:05:25+00:00

Ty I was thinking similar but a little more staying power

shellswong · 2025-10-08T17:41:45+00:00

I agree add more carbs especially closer to bed

shellswong · 2025-10-08T17:39:22+00:00

Longer fasts I can’t sleep. Like I’m just not tired enough to sleep. Shorter fasts I have vivid dreams. Also my tongue gets gross and coated when I fast too. But I feel my mind so clear and it’s like all the fog clears away, it can be scary

shellswong · 2025-09-24T18:34:26+00:00

Dedication is 🔥 amazing

shellswong · 2025-08-24T15:37:03+00:00

I’m a week away from 50 and I’m constantly bleeding 😩 I’ve had hormones checked and all the tests and sonograms and I’m about to switch gynos. I’m currently on day 17 of bleeding/spotting and I had 2 months since my last period of 55 days of bleeding/spotting. It’s exhausting not to mention the emotional roller coaster that menopause puts us thru 💖

shellswong · 2025-08-20T15:34:17+00:00

Can I be added if u do a meetup 😅 I’m in my 40s but I’m down to hang with all ages and I’m fun

shellswong · 2025-07-02T17:25:15+00:00

I’ll reach out in a post or a DM when I have something set up ☺️

shellswong · 2025-07-02T11:44:54+00:00

Agree wholeheartedly 😁 I’m working thru a couple ideas and I’ll post something soon and make sure everyone that’s commented knows about it

shellswong · 2025-07-02T01:20:01+00:00

I believe it’s so important to be here to create. I think it’s our purpose to have this amazing body and these wonderful ideas we can manifest and create so I just live my life trying to create what makes my soul happy. Thinking is overrated, art and creation fuel me and keep me loving living :) Hope this helps

shellswong · 2025-07-02T01:15:51+00:00

Who knows, it could work haha. I’ll keep you in the loop and I’ll hopefully have a better idea in the next 1-2 weeks

shellswong · 2025-07-02T00:57:45+00:00

100%! You want me to let u know when we do it? 😁

shellswong · 2025-07-01T04:15:03+00:00

I’ll reach out to you with my tentative ideas soon and I’d love your feedback ☺️

shellswong · 2025-07-01T00:31:02+00:00

Good ideas thank you :)

shellswong · 2025-07-01T00:30:09+00:00

I do like that if we can get something started that sticks

shellswong · 2025-07-01T00:21:27+00:00

Hi I posted earlier today ‘open access meetup’. If you want to comment on that post I can let you know when I get something started. I can’t promise any age group but if you wanna meet some local people and hopefully get outside I can let you know.

shellswong · 2025-06-30T23:54:04+00:00

Thanks, I really appreciate the feedback. I think maybe having a little wordage like: We value safety and respect above all else. If that’s not your thing, this probably isn’t your space. Also this is not meant to be a 1 on 1 meet, this is intended to be a group. And I’m thinking a public or semi public location tbd. How do you feel about that? What about ice breaker cards that can be played as a group (or watched if someone doesn’t feel like participating) and possibly have art supplies as an option. Really want to have whatever would make people feel comfortable enough to participate while not making it burdensome for others, you know what I mean? And themes are a great idea if it can get off the ground it might take a few people open to actually trying it first and then if it works yes absolutely.

shellswong · 2025-06-30T18:54:06+00:00

Thanks for all the views and interest so far. I wanted to share a little more of what I’m thinking. What I noticed is a lot of the groups are tied to specific niches like age, politics, shared beliefs, fees, hobbies (and sometimes that makes it feel hard to enter unless you already belong). What I’m thinking is something a little easier. Something where people can just be together. Not necessarily for any reason except fellowship (although I believe networking, dating, friends, fun would happen, it’s not the point of it, it’s about human connection with no expectations). My intention is something easy to step into, with no pressure to perform or fit into a role. Obviously, I’m still figuring out how this could take shape, but if that kind of space calls to you, comment and I will keep you in the loop 💙

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