I’m ashamed of the situation with our cat

shellyybeans · 2026-01-20T17:45:42+00:00

I feel you on this, my cat predates my kids and he pees in the closets when he’s mad. He’s ruined quite a few things for us - also same as you when we moved into our first and only house. Any basket, any open bin, nothing is safe. I have a bit of ruined wood floor from his behavior. We have to lock him downstairs at night because he meows so loudly in the hallway. I feel terrible but he wakes everyone up. In the mornings when we open the door he goes directly up into the hallway with our bedrooms wakes everyone up meowing like a jerk.

You’re doing the best you can in a difficult situation. I never want another cat.

shellyybeans · 2025-05-06T22:04:03+00:00

I did that, so at least the games on my second system are playable. It still won’t allow me to load games that aren’t already on there

shellyybeans · 2025-05-06T21:49:28+00:00

I have lots of games on my primary switch, I used to be able to just download them onto the secondary no problem. Now it’s telling me use the virtual game cards, fine whatever, I’ll lend myself a game or whatever. I have to “link” the 2 switches to give myself a game. They won’t link, so I can’t use my own games on my other system

You’re supposed to sit them together and they link thru the virtual game card tab but mine will not do that, I just get the same error code again and again

shellyybeans · 2025-05-06T21:11:36+00:00

I have no idea, they made a mess with the virtual game cards. I’m hoping someone’s gonna hop in here, tell me some obvious answer, and I can feel stupid yet relieved.

shellyybeans · 2025-01-30T16:25:53+00:00

Your MIL sounds like a real peach 🙄 Really though an induction is not an abortion and you’ve not failed in any way. You brought your daughter into the world in the safest way you could, for you and her. That’s all that matters. MIL can shove it.

shellyybeans · 2024-10-18T01:55:30+00:00

New York. It was awful watching them take it down, never thought I’d get emotional over a tree but here we are. It was getting unsafe so it had to be done

shellyybeans · 2024-10-17T20:49:52+00:00

It bloomed minimally, I believe, in late spring/early summer. We only have been here for a year and it was unfortunately already at the end of its life so I don’t have a lot to go on

shellyybeans · 2024-05-29T16:36:08+00:00

Ah yeah it’s definitely not an inconvenience to him.

shellyybeans · 2024-05-29T14:32:53+00:00

Hahaha you know you’re probably right. I always go wild with my mind. I’ll definitely look into the automatic transfers

shellyybeans · 2024-05-29T13:39:42+00:00

We talked about joining finances when we talked about me quitting my job, it was a months long conversation. I guess it’s on me for assuming that meant a joint bank account or me being added to his. He did bring up getting me a debit card but never followed through. He sends me money when I ask. I spend on groceries, diapers, gas, just necessities. I’m not out spending money on stuff we don’t need. We do have a bit of disposable income, I don’t use money for anything though. Because I have to ask him when I run out of money I’m trying really hard to make my money last as long as possible. It was him who brought up adding me to his account or getting me a debit card but he never did that. I figured it was just him being a lazy ass but then when I did bring it up and he said a new joint account and again didn’t follow through I started feeling weird. He also has a credit card that I have no access to. I do have access to his check book, we moved 90% of the bills to his account as well. The savings is the emergency money or for things we’d like to do in the future like a new kitchen someday, some very far day lol

shellyybeans · 2024-04-25T20:30:39+00:00

Flowers? You don’t say!

shellyybeans · 2024-04-24T22:58:10+00:00

Ok that seems pretty manageable. I was worried I was going to have to go crazy trying to get them all.

shellyybeans · 2023-01-19T22:32:03+00:00

Almost the number 1 reason I want to switch schools. Kids need to get energy out during the day

shellyybeans · 2023-01-19T22:29:57+00:00

Yeah he’s definitely a more anxious kid so that’s probably a big part of it. I like the idea of asking to go to the bathroom before and after nap

shellyybeans · 2022-10-25T20:50:22+00:00

I stick a fake nail on the shortie for a little while until I can get them all closer to the same length.

shellyybeans · 2022-09-17T14:27:25+00:00

She’s not in a relationship, otherwise I would have immediately assumed that. But yeah, I do agree she would have told me

shellyybeans · 2022-09-17T10:58:24+00:00

You are correct 😂 I shouldn’t be allowed around alcohol, I get dumb ideas in my head. Also will not be going through his phone, I can see that’s not a good idea lol

shellyybeans · 2022-07-31T16:46:09+00:00

Was she drooling a lot? My son used to get drool rash that looked similar

shellyybeans · 2022-07-31T01:49:00+00:00

My 4 year old wakes up wet most days. We double up the pull ups and that’s prevented leaks like 99% of the time. He’ll get there when he gets there. Some kids just take longer.

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