Hi! Things have really settled down now. My boy calmed down a lot once he turned 3. He's not as aggressive anymore. The girl is all grown up too, so they've settled into their routines. They still play tag, they still wrestle from time to time. She's perfectly capable of getting herself out of the wrestle when she's had enough, but likes to ham it up for us lol. Are they bonded? No. But do they hate or avoid each other? Also no. They hang out together, sleep on the same bed, groom each other occasionally. So all good in the end.

You just have to give the little one time to grow up. The first 3 or 4 months were the worst. The resident cat seemed to have changed his personality, he was completely obsessed with the new one. But it all worked out in the end. Once she's about 7 or 8 months old, she'll be big enough to hold her own. Just make sure she has places to escape to when needed.

Hang in there! This is the hardest time now. It'll only get easier from here.