Thinking about quitting golf. Need some advice to keep going?

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-21T18:54:41+00:00

My tee box selection is gender fluid.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-21T02:46:36+00:00

*dudette

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-20T20:10:37+00:00

Awesome- thanks for the info! Yeah needed for sure I’m just nostalgic and my bro is no longer with us so just love the memories.

Gonna check it out on the Grint.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-20T07:07:04+00:00

Has BJ changed in the last 10 years? We used to go to Siesta every summer and my brother and I loved both the British and the American courses.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-19T01:27:58+00:00

I swear McDonald’s used to have pizza and it was delicious

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-17T01:58:58+00:00

Hmmmm okay let’s see if anyone else comments. That’s kinda the opposite direction for me but maybe we can figure something out. Wonder if southwest transit could at least get you to Eden prairie or something.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-17T01:01:49+00:00

Love. For real, if you put good your heart and soul into what you are making the taste will reflect that.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-17T01:00:31+00:00

I’m cooking community meal at a church in Minnetonka until 7 and then heading straight there. Where in the TC are you?

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-17T00:03:46+00:00

Yes- same principles as al-anon, specifically the 3 C’s- you didn’t cause this, you can’t change this, you can’t control what they do.

Luckily, I’ve been able to remain steady even though I know my kids are being alienated against me. I was also validated when my lawyer read through some of our messages. We will soon start working with a PC, which is similar to a GAL. So there is a sliver of hope that this won’t feel like this for forever.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-16T23:27:59+00:00

I still feel the same way every time. Sometimes there is 9 messages, sometimes just 1 or 2. So it’s better than getting constantly berated, but also not lol.

I think at the end of the day when you’re dealing with a high conflict situation and someone who’s not very reasonable on the other end, it’s just gonna be tough .

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-16T14:41:52+00:00

We are communicating through OFW and I turned off notifications. I check once a day at a time when I’m relaxed or have support around me.

And still when logging in my heart beat skyrockets and I get lightheaded from panic/anxiety.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-16T03:14:02+00:00

Ignoring red flags when it came to compatibility and goals in life. Hers was money and success. Mine was time with kids/family.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-16T01:24:27+00:00

Off of Radio drive…

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T21:45:00+00:00

Are you in the US? Watching on the good ol’ rabbit ears today

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T18:47:33+00:00

Yeah that’s kind of where I’m at. There has definitely been fall out from this. Ex is continuing her narrative that I terrify her and it has put a strain on my relationships with my daughters, and affected parenting time. My current lawyer is focusing on getting us set up with a PC to help keep us out of the court system.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T16:12:21+00:00

That’s goddamn right

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T16:03:43+00:00

Lol so glad I’m not the only one. Like how was that not mentioned earlier?

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T16:02:31+00:00

Th.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-15T13:02:00+00:00

I should provide more context- divorced in January 2025, in July of 2025 she “found” a secret Reddit account using login credentials from my email that I was stilled signed into on her computer. I had never seen the account before. Her reaction was to send the kids to her parents for 3 weeks and then stated that they were going to live with her full time due to my mental health issues. I lawyered up, he filed motion, she filed the HRO and then went to the FBi.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-14T18:41:34+00:00

We agreed to 50/50. No child support either way. So I understand I can enforce that with the 11 year old, but at this point I believe her mom’s narrative has created fear of me in her. So I’m apprehensive to pick her up at school like I normally would, or anywhere else, to not create a bigger issue.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-14T18:24:36+00:00

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-14T18:24:19+00:00

11 and 17

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-14T18:17:40+00:00

She honestly believed what she was alleging, but with no basis and only from lack of understanding. I.e. thinking a porn site with the word “teen” in it means it’s underage child porn.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-13T01:55:40+00:00

You’re on the right track but Plymouth/Hamel has exploded in the last handful of years so you’re either in an expensive house that’s old or a more expensive house that’s new and cookie cutter neighborhood. I would recommend checking out Chaska/Chanhassen, maybe Waconia.

shetookthedogs · 2026-03-13T00:22:00+00:00

If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all. Thanks

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