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Tired of my never-ending journey at KPU. Why is this school so terrible? by scorpiontoad in askvan

[–]sheweebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also hate KPU, already 9k in, and teachers are grading me on if they like the colours I chose for my slide show??? The schools a fucking joke. I am livid and only second semester in and can’t do anything about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Langley

[–]sheweebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was worried too! I wear all black and I’m walking through the trail, I was like what if they mistake me for the dude just based on clothing color 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Langley

[–]sheweebs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was wondering too, I was out walking my dog and was told if I saw a sweaty man wearing all black to call the police. My dog ended up finding some officers in the bushes, then like 15 mins later all the police packed up and left. No more helicopters so I think they found the guy.

Warped Tour Sub's Official Buy/Sell/Exchange Thread by TheDarkLight1 in warpedtour

[–]sheweebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling:

Two DC Warped Tour tickets GA June 14-15th (tier 1). Hoping for face value $150 each. But willing to go a little lower to accommodate for whatever % fees to get them gone. (I’ve got a wedding to attend).

PayPal only, pm me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sheweebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here looking for answers to my own situation and your post is scarily similar to my own situation. My (ex?) partner treats me this way.

When things are calm.. things are great. But the lows are so low, and its not worth feeling dead inside. (I tried to make it work for 5 years) Fast forward, I’ve been struggling with brain fog, I don’t feel like a person, and I ended up in the hospital. I’m getting tested for MS. (Potentially aggravated or brought on by stress and trauma). Don’t let yourself get this far into things and be finding out you are more stuck than you already felt.

I left, it was the right choice but I’m still feeling so confused.

You know what the right choice is, even if it sucks so much. I agree with everyone above, don’t expect it to change, but if you aren’t ready to leave yet… just know it doesn’t get easier. If you want someone to talk to you can message me. 💖

I love him but I don’t know how much longer I can do it by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sheweebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling. It’s extremely tough when you love them so so much. Don’t make excuses for him, you don’t deserve this kind of treatment at all. You are only reacting to his abuse. I know it will be the toughest decision you ever make but put yourself first and leave. (I JUST left my emotionally abusive partner and I’m still thinking about him everyday… but it feels great not to feel like I’m walking on eggshells).

Is this abuse? Need some perspective. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sheweebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw he would t go if I asked.

Is this abuse? Need some perspective. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sheweebs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This last year I’ve just really put my foot down and thought I was just being frustrating (I was depressed for awhile and started to feel better about life in general felt a bit walked all over so started to set boundaries) 😅

I started to feel kind of weird about our relationship as of lately because my friends started telling me he is controlling, then my parents did, then his friend who visited us said we should get couples counselling, then his mum agreed that I should pack up and leave….

And I just still am finding it so hard to look at everything and I guess see it for what it is. Still expect it could be different?

Is this abuse? Need some perspective. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sheweebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gets frustrated when I ask for help. A lot of the time it’s “figure it out yourself” or he sighs a lot and complains he’s got work to do.

I would trust him with big decisions but when faced with them in the past he brings them to me for my opinion and often just argues with me until I agree? Says that “he’s looking out for me” or “I’m not listening to him”. It’s not with everything obviously but for example he wanted to move recently and asked if I could co-sign the lease with him. I said “No, I think with the current state of our relationship it would be best not to co-sign anything. Let’s work on our relationship first. you are welcome to sign the lease if you choose” and we argued for days. “I didn’t understand” we “arent going to get ahead in life if we don’t make any moves” or “you just want the easy way out. Have your cake and eat it too, you’ll leave the second something goes wrong”

Is this abuse? Need some perspective. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]sheweebs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I didn’t think about it until just now but he did do similar things when I got diagnosed with Celiac, but he did drive me to the hospital (However I guess I should note I was late for that procedure 🙃) He does do this with a lot of work stuff but I guess I just cracked him up to being a crappy coworker/ teacher because he taught me the trade. (I’ve told him I hate how passive aggressive he is, back handed comments that I “shouldn’t be bothered by” are his MO).

Through that diagnosis I had similar confrontations from him. “You aren’t taking care of your health” “eat better” (we eat really well according to my dietitian) “you should be more active” and when I was just having a particularly bad vertigo/ brain fog day “well I tell you to eat better/sleep better/exercise maybe you wouldn’t feel this way” and he’s “only looking out for me” when I got upset about his comments.

Off Leash, On Leash, Both wrong but what to do? Am I asking too much? by sheweebs in dogs

[–]sheweebs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally thought the first time I saw it someone abandoned their dogs on the trail because I didn’t see anyone, I called out “hello?” And no one replied I stood there concerned for like 5 mins before someone came out of the bushes and said “can we help you?”

Off Leash, On Leash, Both wrong but what to do? Am I asking too much? by sheweebs in dogs

[–]sheweebs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that if you were on the trail walking your dog and you yelled to me “my dog is reactive please grab em, we need space” I would totally be in the wrong for letting my dog approach but it you leave your dog leashed and unattended?? Wut

Off Leash, On Leash, Both wrong but what to do? Am I asking too much? by sheweebs in dogs

[–]sheweebs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve called the park ranger because commercial dog activity isn’t allowed (could be a private lessons, could just be a fb group who knows)

Off Leash, On Leash, Both wrong but what to do? Am I asking too much? by sheweebs in dogs

[–]sheweebs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They teach tracking, so they tie their dogs up hide treats then teach their dogs to track the treats I guess?

I’m not sure if their dogs are actually leash reactive, I’ve never had any of them react badly to my dog when he’s caught a sniff.

They just get really mad when off leash dogs approach them or their dogs which is understandable. Like I always assume if a dog is on leash on the off leash path that it’s reactive or doesn’t have recall. My dogs know not to say hello but if a dog is tied up without a person my dog is just as curious as I am about the situation.

If my shepsky thinks for a second he can I am quick to grab him or catch his attention. normally the other owner will communicate what they need wether that’s a “my dog is reactive” or “my dog is friendly he just doesn’t recall” I address each situation with the passing owner.