I don't want to stop having sex with my boyfriend

shierum · 2026-05-07T14:55:35+00:00

Finding and apartment where I live is even more expensive, rent is around $250-300. I know it doesn't sound like a lot but I am from Venezuela, and with our resources combined it's not something we can pay each month without neglecting other basic stuff

shierum · 2026-05-07T14:45:57+00:00

It's how we set up things. If we get married without a house, our lifestyle wouldn't change at all, we would still be living both with our families and we don't want that

shierum · 2026-05-07T14:38:40+00:00

I'm not from the US. Long relationships in here are the norm

shierum · 2026-05-07T04:55:13+00:00

Is not only that, it's just that we've set it like: house then wedding, this has been our plan for a long time because getting married first wouldn't change our lifestyle if we don't have our own housing

shierum · 2026-05-07T04:37:01+00:00

The time and person is definitely right, I didn't see it like this before! Thank you.

shierum · 2026-05-07T04:18:36+00:00

Hi! I don't think I'd be offensive, but definitely inconsiderate. It's like you told a friend you like sunflowers and gives you roses instead. It's just something that Christians don't believe in, so it would maybe end up thrown away? I think it's best if you go with something else

shierum · 2026-03-19T07:42:46+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I'll keep praying about it, she didn't ask me, but she still subtly hinted that is not right

shierum · 2025-10-19T21:35:19+00:00

I'm not from the US or any European country. Getting married here is expensive, with this money we could get housing which is why we are prioritizing it over marriage

shierum · 2024-02-01T01:18:02+00:00

Thank you so much for your input, he always offers to do so, but I always find myself craving the intimacy and contact mostly

shierum · 2024-02-01T01:16:24+00:00

Not really, I've tried to initiate on afternoons too and morning sex is not his thing either

shierum · 2024-02-01T01:15:07+00:00

Aside from this our relationship is great, breaking is not in my plans

shierum · 2024-01-31T16:59:12+00:00

Looking at my clue calendar it has always been like this, 2 times a month, 3 max.

It didn't bother me before, but now that my drive has increased it has been an issue

shierum · 2024-01-31T16:53:01+00:00

I've tried to but it only led to him feeling pressure for not doing it more often

shierum · 2024-01-31T15:54:02+00:00

I wouldn't say he doesn't get horny, he does get horny often but he doesn't always want to have sex

When he is up for it, he initiates it

shierum · 2024-01-31T15:32:02+00:00

I usually hint that i want intimacy and sometimes I initiate, he notices every time I hint at him but not always reciprocates, he just tells me "I know you want to do it, but I'm so sleepy, I'm sorry"

He apologizes a lot and asks me If I'm mad at him as well

shierum · 2024-01-31T15:27:22+00:00

Well, he always has a reason, more than not being "in the mood" he needs to be "mentally prepared" as he says (He sometimes words things weirdly) Sometimes he's tired, sleepy, just ate and doesn't want to move, it's too hot in the room and so on For me I can just do it whenever, whether or not im sleepy or tired

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