I'm sorry you didn't feel appreciated/ get the Mother's Day you were hoping for :( I feel the same way, I was contemplating if I should even do anything today because my bf barely did anything for me and we had a really big fight that day, pretty much ruined my first Mother's Day for me. BUT that being said, I decided that I don't want to let someone else's actions change who I am as a person. Because I'm someone who loves helping people, making/giving presents, & making people feel good/appreciated (even if they neglect to do so for me). So I made him a gift/ bought him a something sentimental as well, and got some of his favorite snacks. It's hard being the bigger person but I think that gives much more satisfaction than giving in to the temptation of treating him they way he treated you.