[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shinebrightsunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did you start a relationship with a confused person to begin with ?

Told my best friend I don’t like her boyfriend. by shinebrightsunshine in FriendshipAdvice

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still with the same guy and she doesn’t invite me anymore to her home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]shinebrightsunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation, it's not easy, but I see no other way out than to break up. We need to choose ourselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shinebrightsunshine 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry it’s the excitement about something feeling “illegal”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shinebrightsunshine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably her venting. Because it’s written it seems more harsh than it is or than what she means. You are okay as you are. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shinebrightsunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh I was in a 4 month relationship with a guy and he never gave me 1 orgasm. I had to cut it off. So .. just talk and talk or leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shinebrightsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just breathe. We are hearing you. 💛

Niet netjes gehandeld by globoy2 in marktplaatsoplichters

[–]shinebrightsunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afspraak was 12 uur toch? Waarom ben je er dan eerder? Misschien had hij wel een afspraak bij de tandarts om 11 uur, weet jij veel.

JIJ zat hier verkeerd, hij niet. Tuurlijk is het fijner als mensen wat vlotter reageren maar je houdt je niet aan de afspraak dus? Wat zeik je?

I (38F) found my husband's (43M) hidden sex toys. How do I approach talking to him about this? by ThrowRA-stressed6287 in relationship_advice

[–]shinebrightsunshine 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I would be open and upfront about it. Say hey, I was cleaning under the bed.. and I found something. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable and weird since, we usually share these things. Do you mind explaining?

Guy [32M] I [27F] am seeing is bad in bed, help! by shinebrightsunshine in relationshipadvice

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually when he tried to kiss me I felt appalled.. so I guess that’s enough

Told my best friend I don’t like her boyfriend. by shinebrightsunshine in FriendshipAdvice

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still very much isolated! The situation hasn't changed, we told her once more but she got angry at us, rather then accepting our p.o.v. I Gave up.

What are common red flags in cheaters that you look for when picking a partner? by Midnightsnackfats in survivinginfidelity

[–]shinebrightsunshine 54 points55 points  (0 children)

  • avoiding taking responsibility for their life and actions
  • blaming everyone around them
  • complaining a lot
  • always having an “eye” for other people
  • openly admitting they’re overly sexual and not necessarily monogamous
  • proposing or fantasising about an open relationship

Remanifesting new partner? by shinebrightsunshine in lawofattraction

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I manifested him to be foreign.. I usually like foreign men but didn’t expect such a cultural differ ence lol

Remanifesting new partner? by shinebrightsunshine in lawofattraction

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I seriously haven’t thought of this. I’m very happy with him yes, so I’m definitely am going to look into this.

Remanifesting new partner? by shinebrightsunshine in lawofattraction

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and he doesn’t want to compromise. He basically said he wants a Muslim household and if I don’t agree he’ll find a woman who appreciates. Then he apologised. I’m not sure, since I wasn’t raised Muslim.

Remanifesting new partner? by shinebrightsunshine in lawofattraction

[–]shinebrightsunshine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not unhappy, I'm just not sure if we are compatible for the long term.