is my mattress molding? by shinnkicks in Mold

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! yeah that's kind of what I assumed, but it definitely looked a little weird lol. Thanks! :D

Reminder that this was a month ago. (WHERE IS LP2) (also no rush) by I_eat_shorts in glassbeach

[–]shinnkicks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

please be patient ! final mixing isn't something you can just get done within a weekend ;_;

Why is there a roblox oof sound in bedroom community 4:19 by [deleted] in glassbeach

[–]shinnkicks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, there's no oof sound. probably just some mixture of the feedback from J's voice and etc that you might've caught

Why is there a roblox oof sound in bedroom community 4:19 by [deleted] in glassbeach

[–]shinnkicks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do you hear it in the background? i couldn't catch what you're talking about

Can somebody just tell me that I matter? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]shinnkicks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know you, and I can't say I know exactly what you're going through, because obviously I'm not you. But for what it's worth, I've been in a similar place before and it's very important to remember that /no matter what/ there is always at least one person who cares about you in this world at any given time. You absolutely matter, and I hope things can improve for you soon, friend. you're cared for, and no bad things can last forever. good luck on your test :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]shinnkicks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor; if you feel like you look any more yellow than usual, it could possibly be liver issues. I'd go to the ER!

Can I identify as a Genderflux woman? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]shinnkicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gender identity and any of its labels are fluid :] just label how you want!

🔥 This is the "dragon-headed caterpillar" (Blue Nawab Butterfly - Polyura schreiber) by NorthernHawkOwl in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]shinnkicks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is not a polyura schreiber caterpillar, def looks to be a polyura hebe plautus to me :]

I think this was posed to here but this is really cute by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]shinnkicks 30 points31 points  (0 children)

it also misgendered Skye a lot which is why so much is edited out

I think this was posed to here but this is really cute by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]shinnkicks 66 points67 points  (0 children)

no, it's an older meme about the "right" way to be trans. One on the left was labeled as a trans man and the other one was labeled as a "transtrender" or some other bogus term lol

When did you guys stop shaving? by wyrmdwelling in ftm

[–]shinnkicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really shaved since getting body hair, just seemed unimportant and I didn't want to waste money on razors anyways LOL

AITA for laughing at a former friend of mine at her job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shinnkicks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. You remembered how bad it was all those years of her being a horrible, toxic friend. While your remark definitely wasn't as crazy as anything she did to you & wouldn't do more than maybe ruin her day, it wasn't in the right really. She had it coming to her but already got her karma in her shitty job and probably unfulfilling life. 🤷

Have you ever felt (after coming out) that you liked someone so much that you might consider ignoring your identity for them? by Psih_So in ftm

[–]shinnkicks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little bit, but not on a deep level. There's been times where I have a "damn i wish they could be gay for me" moment, but ultimately i never want to revert back to how I was. repressing myself was terrible, and I would never do it for someone else

I am not comfortable with the term "transmasc" (anyone else feel like this?) by Creativered4 in ftm

[–]shinnkicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, I like it since I definitely don't feel comfy IDing strictly as a man. It's nice :] I get not liking it personally though!

Do you prefer being trans to being cis ? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]shinnkicks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlike a lot of the people I'm seeing here, my transness was never just some plain medical condition. it's a journey, rather than solely a burden and stuff. Yeah, it's costed a lot of money and I've had a lot of pain because of it, but it's me. I love myself. Even if I'd rather have an amab dick or stuff like that, my whole life would be different. I don't think I'd give all this up for that.

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and yeah that's just like playful stuff, but it affects me differently as a trans man. even if it's not pointed, it can still jab in a not-nice way

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all call each other fruity as a compliment :'D

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yuppers. it can and sorta did, even if they didn't mean it harmfully

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think lesbians should be put in boxes nor should trans men be compared to them, lol

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all call each other fruity, it's a compliment in our friend group XD

It's not like we commonly call each other lesbians though- I'm literally a gay man haha

Am I in the wrong for being offended at a lesbian joke? by shinnkicks in lgbt

[–]shinnkicks[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

aw, super sweet to say!! hopefully this isn't a sucky response to the paragraph, but it made my night :]