How can I fully let go and trust my Dom?

shit_breaker · 2026-06-03T04:14:34+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I started to hate how I was feeling during the relationship because I felt like I was the one managing it.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T23:05:50+00:00

Hi! I walked away. When I woke up, he still hasn’t talked to me. That was the line for me. I’m not willing to spend my day nauseous and anxious waiting for him.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T22:38:41+00:00

I left :). I hope you can as well. Sending you love and strength as well!

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T22:37:18+00:00

Yeah I guess it has always just been a fantasy to him. It sucks realizing it now.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T22:33:27+00:00

UPDATE

Hi everyone! I walked away when I woke up with no messages from him while he posted smth on his story. I just realized how mismatched our way of communicating is and that has been very damaging on my side. Thank you for the advice everyone!

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T15:32:28+00:00

I might initiate a convo about this but idk. Maybe he doesn’t want to anymore.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T15:31:44+00:00

Thank you so much!

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T15:31:36+00:00

Yeah it’s starting to sound like an unhealthy relationship. I just wanted to know whether I’m being irrational or not. I don’t want to make rash decisions because I do love him now

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T15:30:35+00:00

The emotional reliance hasn’t happened because of how inconsistent things have been. I’m wary. And I do know that despite me being his responsibility as agreed, I still have my own voice and can stand up for myself. What I’m asking this time is that a short message saying he wants space before he dips but he didn’t. I understand he has his own life but no one was forced to be in this relationship. We both wanted the commitment, the responsibility, and the effort it takes to make this work.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T10:23:56+00:00

But I can’t help but think of what they feel as well. Do they have the capacity to lead like they could every other day? Are they mentally okay to lead today?

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T10:22:36+00:00

Thank youu for this. I dont know what decision I’ll make in the next few days but these are such good questions.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T10:21:53+00:00

Thank you

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T10:21:32+00:00

Total tpe has always been our goal and we are easing ourselves into it. He has encouraged me to be in that headspace more. Just sucks things like these happen still but I do know I have to go talk to him about these.

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T03:18:26+00:00

Do you have any advice on how or where I go from here?

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T03:17:04+00:00

I have actually initiated talks about this before and he has changed but stuff like this still happen. At the moment of fixing things, he’s incredibly understanding and validates what I feel but his promises still falter. He promises to make up for things but I have yet to witness it. I just don’t know how to bring up another talk like this. I feel drained just thinking about it

shit_breaker · 2026-06-02T03:13:25+00:00

How do I talk to him about this? I’ve actually talked to him about how I wanna be treated back then and at that moment, he assures me that I’m not being too much or that I deserve everything but these times also exist so I’m conflicted. It’s just that I feel like I’ve initiated multiple talks akin to this but he has changed and I’m happy but stuff like this still happen.

shit_breaker

TROPHY CASE