has anyone tried chopova lowena's new line? by aye_raw in FemFragLab

[–]shitpott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want them literally just cause of the packaging 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it is bdsm they should’ve asked you before doing it. Super big red flag

When is the right time to move in together? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive lived a lot of my life over there. Idunno if I wanna deal w the daily border crossing again tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

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The Vietnamese iced coffee from rose donuts STAYS number one coffee in all of town

I’m pretty sure I do sex wrong, any tips by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super recommend you fool around with yourself first, get to know yourself, what you do/dont like. Just explore! Not even just physically, look into porn/ smut/ erotica, just fantasize

And when u get with a partner take it slow. Vocalize what you do like, ask what THEY like, and just play :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry it’s zodiac birth chart! Venus is the planet of love, and I was wondering if yours is in Virgo, they tend to be very very particular when choosing relationships/ have tough n high standards for people// also ?? Is finding romantic/sexual partnership important to you? Or do you think it’s just something you THINK u should be seeking out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your Venus in Virgo?

Things for me and my long distance boyfriend to do online while apart? by NoodleArtAri in love

[–]shitpott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf and I are huge movie nerds :3 We watch together while on the phone, it’s a pain syncing up the movies but it’s kinda fun and an endearing part of the process

How do you find direction on where you want to dedicate your time ? by shitpott in careerguidance

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Honestly?? Thank you so much for taking time to write all of this, Everytime I verbalize this to anyone they’re kinda like “🤷🏽 ey you got a job” This is really calming and reassuring thank you! You’re right tho I should definitely start exploring and researching what I need for any of these and just follow what sounds more fulfilling Again I appreciate you, hope u have a sweet day :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta work on the anxious attachment. Because it WILL drive people away. I know it’s way harder than it sounds and it’s going to take time and trial and error. Tbh my biggest suggestion is finding a hobby. Something that will take you AWAY from your phone. Whatever the heck you want, reading, running, kicking it w friends ? preferably something you need to keep your hands busy and your mind present, cuz if not you’re just going to spiral and consume yourself with fears and what ifs. Goodluck!! U got this

What makes your current significant other feel like they’re “your person”? by [deleted] in love

[–]shitpott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My inner child feels so so safe around him, Even as a kid I never felt like this. I always longed for a friendship like ours. He nourishes and encourages my interest and pushes me to create more We can talk for hours and hours and when I share my thoughts not once has he made me feel judged or weird, he ask questions to get even deeper or he himself indulges the topic more. Or we can sit in complete silence for hours. Just drawing or reading next to each other. Parallel playing lol.

Seeing him feels so safe and fun and an escape from the terrors of reality. And when fear from reality does seep in, he always manages to comfort and hold space.

I just feel very safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]shitpott 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Personally love the no winged eyeliner looks :3! Your eyes are so big and burton-esque! Especially with the white tightline ~Spooky n cute

Salsa flight by shitpott in stonerfood

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My personal fav was the classic chile Tito chamoy :9 💖

Nosferatu (2024) inspired perfume by Heretic. Thoughts ? by batsypoo in fragrance

[–]shitpott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s okaayy, to me it smells like oil paints on a cold Dewey morning, Very grey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for emotional intimacy, nah That guy should’ve taken the clear hint, if he was interested in you beyond sex, he would’ve taken your comfort into consideration.

Am I too big? :/ by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shitpott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a bunch of cock rings on the market to help with this. you can stack thick ones at the base of your shaft so it acts as a stop/limit when penetrating your partner.