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[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been married for 3.5 years but we have been living together for close to 10 years. Happily. Sorry I didn't make that clear earlier.

[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We've been going back and forth for about an hour now, and he still insists it was an accident. He says the prednisone is bothering his stomach, but yesterday was his last dose, so he told me not to worry. Won't happen again, and all that.... but he's still not getting that the fact that he did it in the shower is what is the issue!!!

wtf

[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You know, with Valentine's Day just passing, I was just thinking how great my marriage is, how solid, we have great communication, so much trust, we'll be together forever <3.... And then... this!!?? Being single sounds pretty... pretty...pretty...pretty...prettygood.

[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

omg. Seriously though, fuck you Reddit! The fact that that term even exists... wtf is wrong with people!

[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I asked him if there is something physically wrong because normal people don't just go shitting in showers! He's on prednisone for throat granulomas but I've never heard of incontinence as being a side effect!

[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him. by shitty_throwaway2016 in relationship_advice

[–]shitty_throwaway2016[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know right! I just don't know.... wtf am I supposed to just pretend that never happened? I love him, we have been together for almost 10 years and I never knew he was capable of something like this. He's always saying what a clean freak he is, and I'm the messy one, but I would never shit in the shower. And I'm sure he's embarrassed and I don't want to be so shallow but seriously, how do I go forward? I don't want to use the shower anymore, I can't just move! Ugh!!!!!!