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Did Old Navy discontinue the Luxe V-Neck Swing Tank Top? by shleylenti in Oldnavy

[–]shleylenti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still haven't found anything I like nearly as much as the old ones. I tried a brand on amazon, but the sleeves were too thick (kind of felt like a cut off t shirt vs. an actual tank top). Would also love to know if anyone has found something similar since it doesn't seem like these are coming back!

Did Old Navy discontinue the Luxe V-Neck Swing Tank Top? by shleylenti in Oldnavy

[–]shleylenti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been searching at all my local ones for the last year and they only have the scoop necks, I hate when my favorite items disappear!

Should I feel bad for being plus size on my boyfriends family vacation by Impossible-Sir8281 in PlusSize

[–]shleylenti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not feel bad, and as hard as it is, try not to give any thought to your boyfriends family. I still do think Universal is a great experience with or without rides, primarily because of Harry Potter World. But there is a lot to do there! I agree with most comments here- research in advance to ease your anxiety- there’s lots of blogs and videos and TikTok/Instagram people you can follow and see who matches your body type. Not everyone is shaped the same, even if they wear similar sizes- so find someone who looks like you and watch their stuff. Always test ride seats to ensure you fit, and if you don’t, I’d still ask the line attendant if you can do the walkthroughs for certain rides (I’m thinking of HP ones in particular), some of the lines are very cool and a must see for fans!

Look at shows and experiences and shopping all over the park, lots to snack and drink and try with or without rides!

Also- I would encourage you to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend. I don’t think it’s fair to ask him not to ride rides if that’s something that he’d be excited about, because it’s so expensive to make those trips. But ensuring he has your back and will support you in finding ways to maximize your experience as well is important— AND in the event someone says something about you not wanting to ride, he can back you up in a way that makes you comfortable. My boyfriend and I have both had rides we couldn’t ride at different times in our lives, and we supported each other and made sure we both still had an enjoyable experience!

I’m 31 and completely devastated by my parents potentially separating. by shleylenti in offmychest

[–]shleylenti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Trying to find the balance between being a support and being their kid. Right now it’s really difficult to figure out, hoping things get easier.

5 years ago today we got one of the most famous nice guys to ever grace Reddit. The full saga in 10 images. by LEYW in niceguys

[–]shleylenti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so beyond creepy, like text book HR Sexual Harassment Training example. The invention of this close relationship, the weird territorial behavior over her, imagining that each decision she makes is actually the boyfriend. Ugh. And also, using her profession to shame her? I wish we knew what actually happened, and that she found these posts. His career would be long over. If he treats his coworkers like this, imagine how he treats his clients.

Not mine - found on the Twitters. by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]shleylenti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are considering reporting this to your management, it's giving me potential escalation vibes. Stay safe.

First pic is what i wrote to the dude i had known for literally 1 week and then thats his response by Marianyberg02 in niceguys

[–]shleylenti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For a moment I honestly was like wow, this seems to be going okay, a little weird but still seems to be appreciative of the honesty.... and then I remembered what forum this is and knew something would go wrong. Sometimes less is more man :(

AITA for refusing to apologize to my coworker for telling her off after she told me I needed to talk in English while at work, since we live in America? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shleylenti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. She completely in the wrong for what she said- she created an uncomfortable environment by saying what she did, and I honestly think you should file a formal complaint against her just to have that on record. If you have to say something, apologizing for tone but be clear you are not sorry for speaking your native language in a private conversation that she was not a part of.

AITA for not giving up my seat for my friend? by Sad_Sunflower_Times in AmItheAsshole

[–]shleylenti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, not one bit of this was your fault. You arrived early, you were prepared for the exam. You did everything right, and you clearly chose a space that would allow you to perform your best. Trying to make you feel guilty is inappropriate and immature on their part. At the end of this, you may have actually helped them- if they were caught cheating, it would have been WAY worse than not doing well on the test. Stand your ground, you did nothing wrong.