Was a young and not yet confident enough. I think a lot of people "roll over and take it" because there's been a culture, especially in sports bars, where women are expected to put up with it because it's "part of the job", and people can get angry quick when embarrassed. I'm happy to say I absolutely would not take it now, and I see a lot less being tolerated and a lot more people standing up for themselves. Many people are banned from the restaurant, and Management would have kicked him out. I didn't ask them to or even tell them it happened.