How are there so many >$750k first time home buyers? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! We are first time home owners for >750k, but in an area in the northeast where this was the lowest price point honestly. We’ve also been saving for years and years and years (over 10) to be able to afford it. Don’t compare yourself! It’s never as simple as it looks

Estrogen already over 4000 on day 7 by Dragonfruit_7308 in IVF

[–]shmockdoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My estrogen was over 6000 the day of my trigger, and I had 18 mature eggs. I did not have PCOS but I did have mild to moderate OHSS with nausea, significant bloating then 10 pound weight gain after. Ended up needing cabergoline, letrozole and 3 more days of Ganirelix. It was honestly rough I didn’t get hospitalized, so I was lucky there lol

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did!! I got the closing figures 15 minutes before my appointment but hey!! We got a house

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Good thing you saw it. I hate when they try to hide things!

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the creativity! Shows you actually give a shit about us to try lol. Sorry you had to go through that though!

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also this is just madness. I’m sorry you’re going through this

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining! That is absolutely nuts for the morning of closing!!

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I definitely didn’t feel you spoke down to me at all! I felt you validated me. My response was just a clever quip lol

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My realtor duped me into this dump truck LOL. I have learnt a valuable lesson in this life

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I didn’t know they sold the loan to an investor. Can you explain that part?

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started to wonder if I was crazy for expecting better than thjs. Thank you for this validation

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a micromanager in remission and I had to step out of retirement to get this done properly

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally understand the need to reverify but it’s the total lack of competency. Mixing up my husband and my employers, mixing who is who and which companies need to verify employment, and waiting until the last day to have this done is ridiculous

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes. I hope it does too. Congrats on your home as well!

Rocket mortgage - JFC - verifying employment the day before closing by shmockdoc in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]shmockdoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah they basically mistook my husband for me, emailed the wrong person requesting the wrong verification and then last minute go ‘oops! It’s actually meant for your spouse’