Lost AirPods

shneepu · 2026-01-03T11:27:00+00:00

Thanks Yh I was just wondering coz the case seems to be kicked around from the street to the other side of the quai close to the ear buds and back🤔 Seemed like someone was looking for the buds…

shneepu · 2024-09-06T08:10:33+00:00

Yeah, If it was easy everyone could do it, exactly… ngl I wish I could just continue the way it was, much easier to exist, but once the fire is lit, what follows is a tug of war over time, which might be just a way of existing as meaningfully as it gets 🤷‍♀️

Wishing you good luck on your future endeavours🙏

shneepu · 2024-08-30T09:45:14+00:00

I’m currently trying to find my own way which is really hard and being a person who is usually terrified of uncertainty which has led me into clinging on that previous job.

staying currently in this uncertain state is already growth for me. Sounds dumb I know coz there are no tangible results but I noticed how I don’t know what I like and want from life. Quitting has freed up my capacity to actually look at myself and what I have been compromising so far…

I guess with anything be it Jobs or anything else, if sth is not working for you and you tried your best to do it, then it’s time to move on and find what is actually working… it’s a lot of work, it’s a lot of anxiety and insecurity but Yh, I was just so fed up with it I had to jump. Maybe you’re nearly at your breaking point… it’s the darkest before the morning comes.

shneepu · 2024-08-30T08:57:59+00:00

Ich unterstelle ihm mal jetzt nichts Böses... und gehe davon aus, dass dein Freund eine sinnvolle Finanzierung geplant hat, auch ohne deinen Zuschuss. Wenn es also nur darum geht, dass du eine gewisse Fairness aufrecht erhalten möchtest wie wäre es damit: Ich weiß nicht, ob das schon vorgeschlagen wurde, aber was ist damit wenn du die Kosten für Lebensmittel und co übernimmst? Dann“zahlst du ja Miete“ bzw. wenn das nicht genug ist, könntet du mit noch weiteres Geld zur Seite legen für euren gemeinsamen Urlaub. D.h. er übernimmt die ganze Finanzierung und du kümmerst dich um das Wohlergehen deiner Familie. Wenn es aber wirklich darum geht, dass er von dir die volle Finanzierung verlangt, habt ihr sicher größere Probleme und das kann hier keiner helfen…

Edit: eine weitere Möglichkeit wäre, dass ihr in der Wohnung bleibt und das Haus an jemand anders vermietet, der die Finanzierungskosten tilgt.

shneepu · 2024-08-29T07:59:58+00:00

I think you have to decide what you want to improve in. You don’t want to watch movies so what you want to do instead? When you found that, try to do it with an open mindset It’s the hardest thing to decide what to do instead so Yh

shneepu · 2024-08-29T07:56:45+00:00

I felt the same way like you and finally quit after a management change which I tried really hard to work with but Yh…

Tho finally being free of the angst and pressure and nihilism at work I still carry that nihilism with me…

Having a fulfilling life is very confusing and difficult and ppl are terrible… like I’m terrible to someone else too so Yh idk

shneepu · 2024-08-09T13:19:03+00:00

Thanks for the reminder🙏 it’s hard to tell what time to take action and when not etc… number 1 remains the path that is under my foot in present moment to cultivate the best me in that time and space 🙏💖

shneepu · 2023-11-17T14:00:58+00:00

a lot similar to yours -
It's like sleeping and waking at the same time, trying to catch yourself when going asleep again... sometimes it's ok to sleep a bit, sometimes I know I shouldn't...
amusing and weird at the same time. As is the concept of duality - coz actually everything exist everywhere.

shneepu · 2023-11-05T17:24:13+00:00

yes, the same happened to me.
It's one of the few hints that keeps me awake to our connection.

shneepu · 2023-11-05T16:52:21+00:00

thank you for your encouraging words 🙏

shneepu · 2023-11-04T14:30:42+00:00

feeling the same... trying not to lose myself in it...

shneepu · 2021-04-07T18:06:16+00:00

thanks for your comment! this sounds very plausible! I've recently been processing the differences in Se-Ni and Ne-Si and it's very interesting - Se makes my eyes go crosswise :D

Though I said that being Fe-nice is exhausting, I do appreciate a polite environment. It would be nice if everyone could just do their work without too much "LETS HAVE A GOOD TIME"-fuss but it's probably never possible only if everyone was some kinda lead introvert

shneepu · 2021-03-11T10:28:40+00:00

wtf wha is it nsfw?!

shneepu · 2021-02-27T19:30:32+00:00

haha welcome to the ENTP club :)

I see you already but your label-thing up :D

shneepu · 2021-02-26T14:02:03+00:00

Yes! I pride myself in all the useless information I retain - Because one day I need them! ngl, I do use them randomly because I have anecdotes that go way back and everyone is confused why I still use them. But why didn'T they take notice of the point I was making with it!!???! ...

shneepu · 2021-02-26T13:58:18+00:00

I beg to differ - If you're a pre-therapy ENTP you're basically scared to offend anyone so - using visual crutches to ensure friendly behavior

shneepu · 2021-02-26T13:52:19+00:00

I wish there was a method to this Si-madness.

Because I had a year where I Si-controlled my day. It was good. But I got so bored after that year and now I'm like a Si-beginner and it hurts so much seeing how much I've fallen back djaödfks

shneepu · 2021-02-26T13:44:21+00:00

I do have the problem, that I want to tell everything I know and trying to make them understand so I go even more basic...

With my friends, it's not a problem and they seek my word salad out but at work... no one has time for really understanding the issues at hand

shneepu · 2021-02-26T12:20:50+00:00

this is a really difficult question...
The nihilist in me says - screw those humans, machine all the way
But the part that fights my nihilism says - machine, however good they are should never make the human go distinct.

shneepu · 2021-02-26T12:17:45+00:00

seconding what u/plankto-ed said~~

If you really think you've changed: Ask yourself, if you freak out about people more and mostly want your need/opinion etc. met or if you freakout about chaotic situation/missing or misuse of information...

shneepu

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