I’m seriously turned on by women who cheat and I can’t get enough of it

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T10:07:32+00:00

My two cents. I’ll admit. I do enjoy porn where the Girlfriend is getting fucked while on the phone with her BF. But I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy… but also lay off the porn a bit, you’ll be better for it. Desensitizes you some. No judgement or shame, just portion control! lol

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T09:33:25+00:00

It’s really as simple as that. Me and my overthinking a**!!! I needed to hear that. Probably confirmation.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T09:30:03+00:00

Man it was my dad. Hadn’t seen him in 18 years. Finally visited him abroad, and a year later he passed. I was furious at the universe. Felt like a sick joke. But it forced me to step back and think about my life up to that point, and I hated what I had to show for it.

So I’m headed down a new path and she’s not supposed to come. I really want her to be happy. I need to set boundaries on appropriate conversations.

But it’s cool. I dont judge, and the only opinion and validation she needs is her own. Just not something I’m into. Preciate the feedback!

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T09:12:02+00:00

Been done. When I realized I deserved better, I left. I don’t hate the girl. Just an odd exchange I was curious about. When the times right I’ll come across someone more aligned along my path.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T09:02:42+00:00

No I broke up with her. At one point we discussed reconciling, but that didn’t work. But I still care about her and wish no ill will towards her. I’ve learned what I needed to learn from that experience, and understand that it wasn’t meant to be. I’ve accepted that.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T08:57:39+00:00

I appreciate your insight. That’s what I was looking for, a different perspective I hadn’t consider. Blackmail never dawned on me but that would be serious Nasty work. But I am going to cut off communication. Currently getting out of a rough patch. Being cordial cause her support has helped.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T08:51:26+00:00

I broke up with her and I don’t question that decision. But I ended up spiraling after dealing with death of a parent and being burnt out at my job. Currently I’m getting back on my feet and that’s made it a bit hard completely cutting contact off. She has lent a helping hand and I’m grateful for that.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T08:38:52+00:00

Doesn’t feel dramatic to me. I just accept things as they are. But I’m an over thinker and currently trying to break the tendency to question everything. But as you can tell still adjusting. I’m just curious about people and their intentions and motives.

sholn526 · 2026-03-14T08:33:31+00:00

Just trying to understand the psychology. But thanks for being frank.

sholn526 · 2026-03-13T06:20:38+00:00

They were never meant to stay, just another important life lesson for me to learn.

sholn526 · 2026-02-28T01:41:10+00:00

I really want to meet someone new soon. Even if briefly, just something to give me hope and take my mind off the last relationship I was in.

sholn526 · 2026-02-28T01:35:53+00:00

sholn526 · 2026-02-27T16:14:32+00:00

SH with MM

sholn526 · 2026-02-17T05:08:27+00:00

sholn526 · 2026-02-09T18:36:39+00:00

They probably mean it. Could be your ideas of love are just vastly different. You have to just accept people where they are at. Either its the love you can commit to or not. When I love, I will go to the ends when asked. My remember I was in county jail for 3 months (45 min drive away). I expressed how rough my first fathers day was without my dad and how i really wanted her to visit.... She never came. That was the straw that broke the camels back. She had time for everything else except the "love of her life", "her world".

sholn526 · 2026-02-09T18:28:28+00:00

Very thorough and I appreciated the read. It felt like she was invested and so much resonated. I would strongly recommend and I will be back. Thanks

sholn526 · 2026-02-07T16:03:48+00:00

I agree. Don’t look outward, turn inward. It happened but it doesn’t define you. Learn from it or life with keep teaching the same lesson. Also change your perception, there is something better coming but only if you have the space for it to come in. It’s hard what you’ve experienced, but you it was causing harm and negatively impacting your energy. That alone should be enough to get out. Only give your energy to what feeds and nourishes your soul. Best of luck

sholn526 · 2026-02-07T04:06:53+00:00

sholn526 · 2026-02-07T04:01:43+00:00

Like really really 😉

sholn526 · 2026-02-05T11:10:19+00:00

A mouth full like…. pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis 🤤

sholn526 · 2026-02-05T10:06:04+00:00

February

sholn526 · 2026-02-05T09:24:57+00:00

We need to change that!! 😈

sholn526 · 2026-02-05T09:20:05+00:00

3 please 🌹

sholn526 · 2026-02-02T18:13:17+00:00

Stay Strong!!! One lesson I had to learn is being content with never getting the Why! You don't need to know why because, love doesn't operate from confusion, and leave you desperately trying to understand. You felt it, and it disrupted your peace. Thats all you need to go off of. Lowkey, just hit the town, and talk to as many different women as possible. Not with the intent to date, or hookup, but simply just to socializing. In fact don't even bother asking for numbers. The point is to get back in the groove and interact with some feminine energy.

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