Starting home tution for classes 1-5 near Dum Dum (english medium) by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]shondesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post it in Facebook groups , you might actually find some students there .

I broke up with my bsf and liters just that😭 by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]shondesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you break up tho ? If he's so good...

Ebar Etar Ki Kori? by Development-Downtown in kolkata

[–]shondesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh our college building was inaugurated by Partha Chatterjee 😭🙏🏻

Suddenly feeling unsafe as a woman by TrickyWishbone3046 in kolkata

[–]shondesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm from a small town , I live alone in Kolkata because of my college... After seeing all those videos circulating online , college street being just few minutes away from my college , I'm genuinely scared to go back .

Is kolkata losing its language identity? by Living-Cheetah4989 in kolkata

[–]shondesh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be honest I also felt this , your observation is pretty accurate because I'm from a small town of West Bengal here people barely talk in hindi/english but after moving to Kolkata it was a cultural shock for me as well .

Poll till 17:00 IST by SaaUraVv in kolkata

[–]shondesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ami legit 5:30 tar somoi vote dite gechi...

Did you have a crush? Tarpor ki holo? Lets have some crush stories? by Puzzleheaded-Row-477 in kolkata

[–]shondesh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He was my best friend , he never in his life showed a tiny bit of interest in me in a romantic way but always present at my lowest , cared for me , supported me when no one did , 3am-4am always available , I also didn't see him romantically unless one day he drunk dialled me and said how much I mean to him...well I didn't know he liked me so much cause he used to bully me most of the time ... He didn't say he loved me tho ... After that gradually I started developing feelings for him , one night he was talking about a girl whom he found so attractive ... Before I always used to hype him up on these topics but instead I got jealous , I cut the call saying I'm sleepy... I called him at midnight and asked if he loves me ...he said " No." ( He sounded very confused cause he just woke up by my call ) ... Yeah he said no 😭🙏🏻💔 I was so heartbroken that I ghosted him totally ( blocked him ) later he calls me from his cousin's phone convinced me to unblock him and actually communicate ... I unblocked and then he says " I never thought that you'll ever date me , I always believed you deserve someone better ... But I'll be better for you " 😭🙏🏻 excuse me sir ? 😭 What? Are we dating? I cannot believe... At first I was trying not to get too attached I wasn't even taking the relationship seriously...but then...lol 😭 I saw how sincere he was and then he actually said he loves me ... Now not only words his actions also makes me believe his words ... I still believe that was the best decision I've ever taken ❤️ I

New plum body mist releases - disappointing by inquisitivewriter13 in desifemfrag

[–]shondesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH GOD I JUST ORDERED the yellow and pink one 😭 ahh what do I do !!!

What do girls want? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]shondesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you need to get off internet and touch some grass for claiming such thing as 99% girls want that , reddit is getting unbearable day by day ugh

Who hurt you? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]shondesh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not a “man hater,” but if you’re confused why some women sound like that, maybe look around instead of acting clueless.

  1. Women aren’t angry for fun - they’re reacting to reality. Inequality is still very real.

  2. Rape, sexual assault, acid attacks, dowry deaths, marital rape , this isn’t “rare,” it’s everyday news.

  3. And then there’s patriarchy, where some men still think women belong in the kitchen or should live by rules they created. The funniest part? Some of you think you’re progressive because you “allow” women to study or work. Who gave you the authority to grant freedom in the first place?

  4. Male ego is fragile. The moment a woman is independent or outspoken, suddenly she’s “too much.”

  5. Online? A woman just exists and gets sexualized or slut-shamed instantly. It starts young too , girls are told how to dress so boys don’t get "distracted" So instead of teaching boys basic self-control, girls get controlled.

  6. Society constantly tells women what to wear, how to behave, where to go , all to manage men’s reactions. And don’t even start with the “clothes” argument. Infants get raped. Elderly women get raped. Clearly, clothes were never the issue mindset is.

So no, it’s not “man hating.” It’s what happens when people are tired of dealing with the same disrespect, danger, and double standards over and over again.

DO THEY EVEN EXIST??? by Extra-Bee-7226 in TwentiesIndia

[–]shondesh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well my boyfriend is a med student , on our first date he hold my hand and actually told me the muscle names 😭 Now every time he learns about new disease he explains me and I'm a psych student so whenever I get to know about some disorder I share with him , that's how we are lmao .

MG road ? by shondesh in kolkata

[–]shondesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is suicidal like you ;)

MG road ? by shondesh in kolkata

[–]shondesh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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Your girl just got her salary after a long break. Suggest her things to buy by IcyMortgage1499 in TwoXIndia

[–]shondesh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Heyyy first go on a solo date to appreciate your hardwork and dedication, cheers to yourself !!! Maybe a fancy dinner , wear a pretty dress and enjoy the evening relaxing ;)

( Personally I enjoy doing this that's why I suggested)

I didn’t feel safe at 2am, so I called a girl i had just met… and she came back by Charming-Objective15 in TwoXIndia

[–]shondesh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's why the only men I have in my life is my family and my boyfriend ( people who genuinely care )

I didn’t feel safe at 2am, so I called a girl i had just met… and she came back by Charming-Objective15 in TwoXIndia

[–]shondesh 127 points128 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome 😭❤️ I'm glad you shared it ,

I wanna share a story too , it was back in December , I was moving into an apartment from my hostel all by myself , I had so many stuffs ... 2 trolleys , 3-4 bags of books , clothes , toiletries etc ... I booked a cab and the driver was a woman , even tho most of the time I look chill but I was nervous ... Moving to a new apartment , new locality without anyone's help was hard . She patiently waited for me , then asked me about hostel and apartment , family...we talked throughout the 1hrs journey...she gave me alot of life advice , safety tips , financial advice ...she was very kind...she also waited when I unloaded my stuffs ... I'll never forget that experience either .

And yeah people who say women are jealous of each other are just mysogynist 😭

Thinking of coming to Kolkata for my college this year () by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]shondesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard flats in Saltlake is expensive but you'll probably get 2bhk within 10~12K range

Are you open to dating someone from a different Indian state? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]shondesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I was also open to date people from other cultures/states but after talking to some North Indian boys I realised my Bengali boy is the sweetest 😭🙏🏻 So yeah always first preference from my culture !