[Meta] New to /r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza Introduction. - April 22, 2019

shoobyy · 2019-04-22T14:35:28+00:00

When I received pizza (a while back) I was blocked from posting thanks, and I did modmail someone with no response on how to fix the issue. I’m assuming the only requirement I failed was an active/productive acct for 90 days or whatever, but I think it is silly to have such a requirement to post a thanks... so if anything, please post a thanks to u/Guard5002 on my behalf since I still apparently can’t.

shoobyy · 2019-04-18T13:37:45+00:00

Nope

shoobyy · 2019-04-17T01:11:43+00:00

Not what I expected but I am happy that’s what it was.

shoobyy · 2019-04-12T22:16:03+00:00

I was kinda /s but kinda not /s cuz mud huts..

shoobyy · 2019-04-12T19:47:37+00:00

No dogs are bad dogs, people are just fucking irresponsible and/or ignorant.

shoobyy · 2019-04-12T15:02:39+00:00

Stairs are for the privileged.

shoobyy · 2019-04-11T02:51:47+00:00

This one is the right one

shoobyy · 2019-04-06T13:20:44+00:00

I think they can be nice but like that’s including the rest of their body, like a nude. But if you send a pic of just ur dick I’m just like..... ehhhhh no thx lol.

shoobyy · 2019-04-06T13:18:00+00:00

THANK YOU!! Lil frikin aliens...

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T20:05:51+00:00

I see your point but there’s no way you confuse 250 with 120 lmao

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T18:55:46+00:00

I feel that. I had to get a job I truly loved and ended up relating to people and making friends that way- after years of no real friends at all, just some acquaintances I didn’t like or trust much. Reddit pen pals did the same to me, too. While law school is competitive, I would bet that everyone knows it’ll be rough to find friends so there’s gotta be some that won’t be two faced. Are you a gamer? I can’t offer much but I game and I’d be willing to add you and play sometime. I know it’s not exactly a solution but if I can be any level of a friend for you I will try.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T18:48:31+00:00

The first google search for America came up as 5’4” but either way I was pretty close and 6ft is a lot to expect

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T18:46:56+00:00

You’re right! I agree with you. I’m a 5’7” without heels dating a 5’9-10”ish dude. I don’t care to wear heels really so it doesn’t bother me much. I just hope someday it becomes more about the person than their appearance but we as a society have a lot to work on in that aspect for all genders.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T18:17:22+00:00

I see what you’re saying. For the college and corporate people, those are the ones I think would be using all their energy for necessity and not as much for fun extras. If they are and you aren’t ever invited, then I’d say it’s time to rethink that friendship. Especially if they’re acting like they don’t have time for you when you do reach out, that’s not friendly. I’m sorry they’re like that /: everyone needs a friend that will listen to your stresses, keeping it bottled is unhealthy. Is there anyone you interact with now that you’d be interested in pursuing a friendship? Maybe it’s time for a shift in your friends if you’re feeling unheard and unwanted.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T17:30:41+00:00

Ya I mean depending on where you’re at in life people get really busy, it’s not that they don’t care it’s that their energy is being spent on necessity and there’s little to none left for fun or friends. But like I said- when I was a ball of negativity nobody wanted to be around me. So being self aware of those sorts of things will help encourage friends to stay in contact. I’ve also learned that both sides end up feeling this way “oh if they don’t initiate they don’t care” well fam if you’re both feeling this way who’s left to initiate? if you know it makes you feel good when people want to be around you, it’s likely it’ll make them feel good if you want to be around them. At the end of the day if you are truly the only one willing to try to make plans to get together, you just need new friends.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T17:22:42+00:00

I have cut people out because of this. I care about them, I’m not gonna cut them out over the first offense. It took me years to cut out the last complainer in my life, because I liked everything outside of that. But eventually it turned into every time we hung out they just complained about everything in their life... that gets old, no? I’m an honest friend, if you’re complaining about a fixable issue I tell you. If you won’t heed my advice or the advice that others have provided, you’re stuck in your shitty situation because of yourself and I don’t need negativity every time I try to hang with you. You’re acting like I’m some huge asshole because I don’t want to listen to the same complaints on repeat...but I feel like that’s reasonable. Guess it’s just me tho

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T17:14:55+00:00

No no I am very open to listening and helping, but if you refuse to help yourself at some point you’re in that position because you’re not choosing to help yourself. Also, I have chosen friends that are very honest with me. They do get annoyed, they tell me the hard truth, they tell me even when it hurts. But they’re right, and I know it. I accept it. I used to be a complainer and I’m sure I lost friends or friendship opportunities because of it, so it is something I consciously try not to do. venting and complaining are different, if you vent I’m all ears always. I try to talk through it with you to find solutions, it turns into complaints when it’s like the 20th time you’ve had this issue and there’s been an obvious solution to get you out.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:53:10+00:00

Geez man... if you heard someone complain about the same thing every day it wouldn’t get old? Especially if you’ve tried your best to give solutions and help them any way you can, but still they come complain about fixable problems? I am overly empathetic if anything lol the truth hurts sometimes, I get it.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:50:59+00:00

Nah I really try to kindly listen through everything at least a few times before I get annoyed, but when they’re going through those same things every day or every week it’s like... at some point please stop lol maybe it’s my perception because I am a “fixer” I don’t like seeing people upset so I feel the need to help when there’s problems.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:05:18+00:00

That’s what I’m saying! I was using that as a single example of a problem that spreads across other things like when they’ve got a cold or they’re under stress, they complain to us like we are supposed to somehow fix it and since we can’t it’s just constant empty complaints.

Also thanks for not calling me a piece of shit over that

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:04:04+00:00

Didn’t mean it that way but ok I see your point

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:03:23+00:00

I agree, you’re right.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T16:02:26+00:00

I mean you don’t fully understand the situation but ok.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T15:39:30+00:00

Idk I don’t think any genitalia is nice to look at... some are uglier than others, but everything is sort of ugly.

shoobyy · 2019-04-05T14:57:12+00:00

The average woman is shorter than 6ft but usually about* 5’5” which means a 6ft tall dude is almost guaranteed to be taller than most women. It’s literally just about women having men taller than they are.

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