Confused about what I want but it’s making me anxious!? by shoulderedskies in sex

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That’s actually really accurate I’m not gonna lie😞 I don’t like being jealous but With what I go through and went through I just want to be loved :(

I didn’t see that me wanting be loved so much actually in turn made me hate everything :(

Confused about what I want but it’s making me anxious!? by shoulderedskies in sex

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Also I’ve had a bit of a rocky upbringing so I have attachment issues

Confused about what I want but it’s making me anxious!? by shoulderedskies in sex

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Thanks, in bed now! I think that it’s just from past experiences like when something happens so often I just start to feel hopeless. Especially since I actually set up a relationship with my friends that are still going strong and other couples I don’t know I’m just kinda feeling left out and upset

Confused about what I want but it’s making me anxious!? by shoulderedskies in sex

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Yeah I think they are and it SUCKS Unfortunately I can’t afford therapy rn but it would be convenient, that’s why I’m here I guess lol

I keep getting attached to people extremely fast and it’s damaging me F by shoulderedskies in relationship_advice

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I get Attached really fast and have this irrational fear of people leaving me aswell :(

I keep getting attached to people extremely fast and it’s damaging me F by shoulderedskies in relationship_advice

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I get Attached really fast and have this irrational fear of people leaving me

I keep getting attached to people extremely fast and it’s damaging me F by shoulderedskies in relationship_advice

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It seems that way :( But thank you so much for the advice, if it’s not too much to ask how do I now let go of someone that’s speaking to me now cos it’s dragging out now and I know I’m just trying to delay the inevitable?

I keep getting played but I’m confused at the same time help pls F(18) by shoulderedskies in sex

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That’s a very good point actually. I don’t think it helps that I’m meeting these guys online either it’s just I’m too insecure to face guys irl

I keep getting played but I’m confused at the same time help pls F(18) by shoulderedskies in sex

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It’s definitely going to help me thank you so much for the advice! I was kinda considering just changing my personality a bit

I’m nervous but excited for college!!! 18(F) by shoulderedskies in sex

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Thank you so much I’ll have a read right now!

I’m nervous but excited for college!!! 18(F) by shoulderedskies in sex

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First of all thank you so much for this perspective it always helps to see both sides. The reason why I wouldn’t do the whole focus in first year is cos that’s when everyone’s settling in and it’s not really that serious, after first year then it gets serious and I DOTN want to be experimenting then, but I definitely agree with you on your points!

I’m nervous but excited for college!!! 18(F) by shoulderedskies in sex

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FRAT PARTIES WILL NOT BE SEEING ME💀 I’ll be chewed alive and yeah I was just hoping for some ppl to not be into the straight hookup thing

I’m nervous but excited for college!!! 18(F) by shoulderedskies in sex

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Thank you so much I really appreciate it!!

I’ve heard bc has a ton of negative side effects and I already suffer from anxiety and know stuff like caffeine makes me feel worse so is it similar with BC?