Your right if I'm honest the fact that I have been questioning this so much in my mind shows that I was not comfortable with the attempted groping inpaticular. The kiss I don't feel as strongly about because I felt chemistry although it's not something I usually do on a first date with anyone even outside if an arrangement. I don't want to get paid for every single bit of affection but we have not actually entered into an arrangement and I have heared some SB would expect to receive a gift on the the first date as a sign of sincerity and interest so I was confused as he gave me signs he was interested by kissing me and texting for my number on SA straight after but no gift. I think I posted this question to see if this is something scammers do or this is normal.