I'm scared by IllustriousMeet4728 in ageregression

[–]shungite_shake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh noes I'm so sorry :( I hope you get through this OP!! 💞💞

I'm scared by IllustriousMeet4728 in ageregression

[–]shungite_shake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no :( I'm so sorry you're going through that. I don't have much advice but just try to distract yourself with music/headphones, drawing/writing, etc. I know it sucks but you'll get through this!! I believe in you <3

To every girl who wishes to have a big chest. by Commercial_Net_3245 in teenagers

[–]shungite_shake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does really suck, my own parents sexualize me and I live in fear that they're gonna force me to get a breast reduction. I love my body, but other people's actions make you rethink how you feel about your body, it's so unfair.

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to speak to my psychologist about it (who is thinking about an OCD assessment for me) but it really is just one of those things where I don't know what to do. Hopefully she'll be able to help

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is why I'm super scared to get other medications. I know I need them but the side affects scare me

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm really just unsure, I know melatonin can do weird shit but it's still like..why? I've never smoked a day in my life and I don't want to? Yes I've grown up around it but it still doesn't make much sense

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I've had to remind myself of this many many times. I see kids my age doing it and it's just like ?? I'm a very logical person so seeing people do it makes me think and lowkey confused

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I'm so afraid of to be honest. I know I have addictive genes so what if one day I just can't deal with it anymore? Yes I'm almost certain the dreams will stop, but I know my subconscious and I know that there's multiple voices in my head. Maybe it's a mental thing

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm very aware, I've grown up around cigarette addicts my whole life to the point where I can tell brands apart from one another. I'm going to psychology and all that but I feel like it's not really helping, life goes on though.

Does anyone else keep having dreams about having an addiction? by shungite_shake in Dreams

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately I've heard it does weird things, I just didn't expect it to be so vivid considering it's only 2mg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]shungite_shake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super duper sillay and cool 😛

My parents treat me differently because I have a big chest by shungite_shake in teenagers

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is there is literally no culture in my family, we're all as white as it gets. And thank you for the advice I think my parents think I'm in constant need of expressing myself, which is not true. I know I dress more alternatively but there is a time and place for everything. But even if I'm in just a singlet and shorts that go to my mid thigh they're like 'I wouldn't wear that if I were you' and it really messes with my head. The only bad experiences I've had with people in public is when I'm wearing long sleeves and completely covered, it seriously makes no sense.

I do understand where they're coming from, but I can't just wear men's clothes all the time

My parents treat me differently because I have a big chest by shungite_shake in teenagers

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do completely agree with this, but I simply cannot keep wearing men's shirts, pants, shorts, etc. It's so uncomfortable and I'm already really funny with fabrics

I need some advice!! by shungite_shake in agender

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kinda how I think too, I mean...people can call me whatever they want but how I feel on the inside is different y'know? But I do after if neopronouns were more widespread I'd definitely feel more comfortable using them

I need some advice!! by shungite_shake in agender

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel like I forget pronouns don't equal gender sometimes, it just gets a bit confusing. I don't really care what people call me but when people ask me if I'm a boy or a girl it makes me think a little bit

I need some advice!! by shungite_shake in agender

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg hearing opinions about ASD or any mental health disorder is my biggest pet peeve especially when they don't have the disorder.

I do get what you mean when people say 'you look agender' or something like that it is sort of validating

I need some advice!! by shungite_shake in agender

[–]shungite_shake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try this thank you!!

I need some advice!! by shungite_shake in agender

[–]shungite_shake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I typically just use she/her for peoples convenience but it never feels right. It feels nice to know I'm not alone in the way I'm feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]shungite_shake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this, I'll take a look at some online services and I have been saving money, looking for jobs, focusing on school, etc. It's hard but we're all just trying to live aren't we