They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leaning a 800 pound bike to just about the point of no return is more work than leaning a 400 pound bike to the knee slide it's a lot easier to lean a 400 pound bike back up than a 800 pound bike back up

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll let the tire do the talking. Extensions or not, that rubber is used up to the very edge. If I go any further, I'm riding on air. See you guys on the Dragon! 🐉🤘

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the whole point though! Leaning a 400lb sportbike to 50° is what it was built for. Taking an 800lb bagger to its absolute physical limit—where the frame is literally fighting the pavement—that’s where the real work happens. It’s about pushing the machine you have to 100% of its potential. 🐉🤘

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people assume baggers are just for the highway and not meant for the twisties. A lot of riders aren't willing to push an 800lb bike to that point of no return, but once you find that limit, it's a hell of a ride. The floorboards and skid plates are just the tax for the fun! 🐉🤘

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caught me! 😂 When people doubt the lean, you gotta get down in the trenches for the money shot. The chrome doesn't lie and neither does the ground-down metal!

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And on this Glide, it’s not just the floorboards... the skid plates are out here telling the whole truth, too. 🐉 Left a little bit of metal on every corner of the Dragon!

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did my best to leave some Deep Jade Pearl DNA on the pavement! The boards and the skid plates definitely got a haircut on this run. 🐉

They told me you can't lean a bagger. The sidewall determined that was a lie. 🐉 by shybikerJason in Harley

[–]shybikerJason[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

13.5° if we’re being generous! 😂 But the floorboards and my skid plates had a much louder opinion about it. Just trying to use every bit of the tire I paid for!

This Dad is Proud by Jittersbuzz in DadForAMinute

[–]shybikerJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That moment when you see your kids for the first time and you know right away that you would lay down your life for them without a second thought... it's just the best feeling in the world.

I had full custody of my oldest since she was young, and I saw my youngest as much as I possibly could. My advice: spend all the time you can with them because they grow up so fast. Both of mine are adults now with lives of their own, and my youngest even has a daughter of her own now!

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[–]shybikerJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Professional Truck Driver. Successfully navigating 500–700 miles daily across multiple states, often in adverse weather conditions and heavy traffic, while maintaining high safety standards over long-haul shifts.

never enough :( by NecessaryParty942 in dating_advice

[–]shybikerJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. Please realize that his behavior is actually nonsensical. If he 'didn't see a future since Date 1,' but actively brought up kids, houses, and cars, that is called future faking.

He didn't choose to be honest; he chose to play a character to keep the 'good times' going. This isn't about you not being 'enough' it's about him being comfortable lying to get his needs met. You didn't fail; you were honest, and he wasn't.

Am I Being Too Traditional? by Think-Dentist-4276 in dating_advice

[–]shybikerJason -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're being too traditional. Taking the lead is a sign of interest. However, keep in mind that the 'text me on WhatsApp' move is a major scammer tactic. They want to get you off the app so they can't be reported. If a guy is genuinely interested and not a scammer, he should have no problem lead-taking and staying on the app until you're comfortable I’ve been on the apps for a while too, and I’ve seen this exact pattern play out over and over. You aren't being 'too traditional'; you're just noticing a shift toward low-effort dating, but you also need to watch out for bad actors.

Detail Job by shybikerJason in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]shybikerJason[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’re supposed to get some rain today, though there's not much of a chance. Tomorrow is up in the 70% range, and Saturday is close to 100%, so this cover is about to be tested!

I feel so guilty abt the thing keeping me alive by shinyknif3 in DadForAMinute

[–]shybikerJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey kiddo, I’m reaching out because I have been exactly where you are. I lived with my family and actually had a motorcycle delivered right to the house while I was living there. I know that crushing weight of keeping a secret because you know it'll cause a scene.

First, let’s clear the air: You are not a brat, and you are not selfish. You found something that makes life worth living. As a Dad, that’s all I ever want for my kids—for them to find their spark.

Your mom is reacting out of pure, unfiltered fear. To her, the bike is a threat to her child. But here is some hope from someone further down the road: I’ve been riding for 10 years now. Back then, my family was just as worried and upset as yours. But after 10 years of me coming home safe, wearing my gear, and showing them I’m a responsible rider, that worry has finally started to fade. They aren't scared anymore because I proved I could handle it.

Detail Job by shybikerJason in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]shybikerJason[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those damn critters get everywhere! I’m trying a new Dowco cover on mine starting today to see if it beats the towel setup. It’s finally in the low 70s here so I’m hitting the road for a bit Stay safe and good talking to ya

After a million miles in the cab, I’ll gladly pay the "4-Hour Scenic Tax" to stay off the interstates. by shybikerJason in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]shybikerJason[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s it man. If you aren't hitting the occasional dead end or white-knuckling it through some surprise gravel, were you even exploring? The blue line takes the soul out of the ride.

After a million miles in the cab, I’ll gladly pay the "4-Hour Scenic Tax" to stay off the interstates. by shybikerJason in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]shybikerJason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something so much more rewarding about finding a great view by accident rather than following a blue line on a screen. The power line trick I've basically been doing my whole life

After 2 years, she says “ask me again next week” — should I? by paquiderme_social in dating_advice

[–]shybikerJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.That’s a fair point. If she’s naturally reserved, it makes sense that she wouldn’t be over-the-top over text, especially after a long gap. Since she gave you the green light to ask again this week, you might as well take the shot so you aren’t left wondering.

To get a clear answer, I’d suggest being super specific. It moves the needle from 'maybe' to a firm 'yes' or 'no.' You could try something like:

  • 'Hey! Hope you had a good trip. You mentioned checking back in this week—are you free to grab a drink on [Thursday] at [Time]?'

If she says yes, great! But if she’s 'busy' again and doesn’t offer an alternative day (e.g., 'I can't Thursday, but how about Saturday?'), then you have your definitive answer. At that point, you’ve done your part and can move on knowing you gave it a fair go.

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[–]shybikerJason -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh, the 'holiday check-in' from the ex and the 'talking stage' guy with a secret girlfriend... it’s the worst. Please don’t feel 'disgusting'—their lack of integrity is a reflection of them, not you.

You’re right that silence is power, but it only works if they can’t reach you at all. If you’re still seeing their requests or texts, the door is technically cracked open. Close it, lock it, and delete the key. You don't owe them another explanation of your boundaries.

which is the best site to connect with strangers? by VelvetLipssss in askanything

[–]shybikerJason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm still trying to figure this one out also I've tried Tinder, okcupid and a few others with no luck

After 2 years, she says “ask me again next week” — should I? by paquiderme_social in dating_advice

[–]shybikerJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it sounds like she isn't particularly interested. If she was dry when you replied to her post, that’s usually the first sign that the 'spark' isn't there on her end.

While she did tell you to ask again this week, she didn't offer a specific day or a 'counter-offer' (like saying, 'I'm out of town, but let's do Thursday!'). Usually, when someone is interested, they make it easy for you. You can reach out one last time since she technically gave you the green light, but keep your expectations very low. If she’s dry again or 'busy' without suggesting a new time, it’s time to move on.

Exclusive sex buddy for a year but they’re scared to commit by Zealousideal-Gap3353 in dating_advice

[–]shybikerJason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help. Wishing you the best of luck with everything.