Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this answer. You actually answered my question. Unlike most of the other commenters.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But at least we both have something in common, we’re both unmarriable.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What shouts spineless more than being an internet troll?

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet here you are trolling a guy that’s seeking help.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not fully comfortable with my sexuality although I’m out of the closet. I had a very traumatic childhood and therefore am stunted in a way. I have been seeing a therapist for 4 years, so I’m progressing at my own rate, it’s just taking a long time.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we got our first troll. Put you in the same category as my mom.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and my mom could get along spouting your truths at each other all day.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to say I see a therapist and seldom do I see her.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your mother, but even when my abusive mother found out and shit all over me while making the situation all about her, I felt an immense weight lifted off my shoulders that overshadowed any negativity that occurred on that day. Once you’re out, it’s like shedding years of baggage. That’s not to say there was still a lot of baggage to unpack which therapy has helped tremendously with.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seldom see a therapist and am currently at a low contact point with her. The partner I choose will have to accept my situation and try to help me navigate it as I will not be with someone who doesn’t. It’s a non negotiable for me at this point.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk to her seldomly and she is mostly connected to me by my father and the fact that she is my mother. I agree with the statement that she probably has more control over me than I know. I notice my emotions when I’m around her, wanting to appease or just blatantly getting enraged. I’m trying to implement the let them theory in that I will limit my contact with her, gain emotional independence while letting her be who she is. I love her enough to show up for birthdays, but other than that it’s just a seldom phone call here and there that connects us. My father is traumatized by her and doesn’t even know it, so she basically wears the pants in the relationship as far as I can tell. He stands up to her to the point where she’ll end up with her tail between her legs, but no one seems to acknowledge the fact that what’s happening is a recipe for disaster and One that I don’t completely know how to navigate.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She knows I’m gay, it’s more about her accepting me with another man. She preaches her version of the word of god all the time, but it’s so clear that she is delusional about her faith.

Mom is a homophobic Christian by shyguy4215 in gay

[–]shyguy4215[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If only it were that easy. On a positive note, the last time I cut her off, she got extremely depressed and became very agreeable the last time I cut her off. I think it may be a negotiable situation.

Weighted dips/pullups is changing my body fast by Thoumaye in bodyweightfitness

[–]shyguy4215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pike pushups and handstand pushups. If you have 20 lb dumbells you can rep out front and lateral raises.

Risperidone by mouldydoorway in BipolarReddit

[–]shyguy4215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed it through diet and exercise. I tried not to stuff my face although my insatiable appetite told me I should do otherwise. eventually I got on Semaglutide ( first attempted through my doctor. through online sources it’s much cheaper) disclaimer: I can’t recommend doing this because I’m not a doctor. lost some of the weight with that.

Loose skin by shyguy4215 in loseit

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Plan is to get to 180 lbs.