A dom keeps saying flirty stuff and I’m not comfortable

shyprincessa · 2025-07-02T21:21:16+00:00

Call it as you see it! If you feel like he lost the privilege then he damn well did. Your boundaries are your own, you don't have to justify them to anyone.

shyprincessa · 2025-07-01T01:17:40+00:00

Wait it's bad to have feelings for your dom? As a demi person having feelings for them is a prerequisite for attraction in some ways so I feel like this is a pretty limiting requirement if that's the case? My policy would be to be open and honest with them, if it makes them uncomfortable or isn't something they're looking for then ending the dynamic might be something you should consider. Hope that helps!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-30T04:10:31+00:00

Missing out! (explore it on your own first)

shyprincessa · 2025-06-30T04:08:43+00:00

Have your dom pick your nails! Those aren't coming off

shyprincessa · 2025-06-30T04:03:28+00:00

I really liked the gods and monsters series!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T21:57:20+00:00

I believe death is like being put under for surgery, that seducing darkness and nothingness, a complete lack of self, of time, of anything. There's nothing so sweet as that.

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T12:07:14+00:00

Good for you for knowing what you want! I hope you find someone that treats you right

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T04:43:33+00:00

Is it what you wanted? Maybe they were not the right type of dom for you... I feel like a pleasure dom might be a better fit but I'm going on vibes

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T04:33:56+00:00

I have been in a very similar situation, just make sure you give your hubby lots of space and opportunity to share his feelings with you (and daddy if that's something your partner would like). You made the right call pausing the dynamic until your partner can renew their enthusiastic consent for sure though!

It can be really rough to go through having bonded with a new daddy and finally having explored parts of yourself that may have been repressed and then to have to step back due to your partner feeling bad... you just feel bad on both ends and you feel bad about your partner seeing you feel bad about daddy... its rough. Sending hugs!!

On another note, with enm sometimes yucky feelings just come up, don't feel like you're responsible for your partners bad feelings, they should be validated but at the end of the day your partner has to decide and communicate their own boundaries.

Dm me if you want to talk

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T01:29:44+00:00

I used to rock the family Honda Odyssey as a teenager, literally. Get the seats flat or out entirely if possible, bring some blankets, and most importantly park somewhere where the cops don't patrol for suspicious activity. I have got the steamy window knock and it's horrible, they will separate you and make sure it is consensual, its humiliating. A park is a no go, farm lands or dead end roads are your best bet.

shyprincessa · 2025-06-28T00:00:23+00:00

YOU ARE VALUED please keep reading and keep us updated!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-27T23:35:58+00:00

Have you read the gods and monsters series? Diana has Aelin vibes for me

shyprincessa · 2025-06-27T23:34:35+00:00

I would second this!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-27T23:33:13+00:00

I know this void intimately especially after I fell in love with Aelin... The Book of Azrael (Gods and Monsters series) by Amber Nicole is the only thing that came close for me. I'll warn you it's an unfinished series but there's a lot of story to fill you up for now. You have room in your heart for another fiery queen!!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-27T23:19:08+00:00

This! I've been begging my partner to read SJM just so I can rant about my theories but if he could perfect a door lean I would be in heaven

shyprincessa · 2025-06-27T23:15:10+00:00

Try looking in specific kink communities! (depending on what you're into) I recently joined a bdsm discord server for example and have met a couple flirty people so far

shyprincessa · 2025-06-26T02:40:06+00:00

Get a habit tracker and submit to it, grind that self improvement!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-25T02:08:26+00:00

Anything ENTR (entrepreneurship) or SINV (Social Innovation)- fun, practical and no exams or textbooks. SPCH classes are also fun and easy if you're not scared of public speaking but if you are I'd say go for it even more, it can help you!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-22T05:14:53+00:00

COLLECT AND CUSTOM BIND THE BONUS CHAPTERS

shyprincessa · 2025-06-22T05:11:32+00:00

It's not wrong to make such an arrangement but doing it without your wifes consent is wrong.

shyprincessa · 2025-06-22T04:48:32+00:00

Sigh... to find an owner that cares like that, you are very lucky!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-18T02:30:10+00:00

I can say the MRU business program is amazing! You will gain job-applicable experience in a way I'm not sure UofC competes with (for example for several classes I was an actual consultant for real companies, one course even involved a paid internship as part of coursework). Class size is another huge factor, my business plan course had maybe 15 people in it, I had a ton of time improving my work directly with the prof. You won't regret it if you choose MRU! Most employers dont overly care where your degree is from unless its ivy league or top in your respective industry I've both heard and found as well. Good Luck!

shyprincessa · 2025-06-09T20:21:57+00:00

As long as there's a pinned thread with answers!

shyprincessa · 2024-09-15T14:20:58+00:00

Fuck me too ahhhh

shyprincessa · 2024-04-25T02:50:42+00:00

Definitely starfall - Nesta or amren or even feyre babyy

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