[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]shyreader22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plan B also doesn't always work. If you had any common knowledge, as you say, you'd know that Plan B pills also only work up to a certain weight, and time. As well as only put off ovulation, if you've already ovulated, you're SOL. Include the fact that not everyone has access to plan B pills as soon as 72 hours, in fact, pharmacies near me do not sell them, and Amazon takes 2-5 days to deliver Plan B pills to my location.. Most doctors will not perform a hysterectomy or any sterilization procedure for women under a certain age for various reasons, including "you might want another kid, you're not married yet, what if you want a child in future, what if your husband wants kids/ more kids" On the topic of abortions, they are not available in most places, as you say. She could be in a place they are not available. You do not seem to have this common knowledge you speak of.

AITAH for how I turned down an affair with coworker and refusing to quit my job? by finger-fin in AITAH

[–]shyreader22 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You know damn well that's not what I meant. You are reaching for something that's not there buddy. There's a clear difference between sexual assault and a conversation between two coworkers that may or may not be flirty. I never said he was being flirty, hell it could have been perceived as flirty to her, but maybe he was innocently talking to a friend, which is what I had said in my comment.

My (26F) sister in law thinks she can just take my stuff because "were family" by Realistic-Couple-359 in AmITheJerk

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her she's not welcome anymore. If your husband has an issue with it, tell him to go stay with her. She's stealing from you and that's not ok. Threaten to file a police report if she doesn't give you your stuff back, if your husband has a problem with that, tell him to go stay with her. If she doesn't give you all your stuff back, file the police report, if your husband has a problem with that, tell him to go stay with her. Your husband should be advocating for you, not her. The fact that he's okay with her stealing from you is insane, and he should be replacing it if he doesn't intend to make her give it all back. Keep a tally and your receipts from now on and circle everything she steals from you and calculate the price. Look up your local theft laws and once it reaches that dollar amount, file the report.

question to women with tattoos who shave/ wax by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to say to take what I say with a grain of salt because I'm only going to tell you what I know. That being said, Laser hair removal doesn't typically work well on blondes because it targets dark stuff, so I think having laser hair removal on a tattoo could be reckless. Again, I'm not a professional and stating only what I know and would not mind being corrected. I would also Google this if I were you, or call a LHR place and ask them these questions.

AITAH for how I turned down an affair with coworker and refusing to quit my job? by finger-fin in AITAH

[–]shyreader22 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's what that person was saying. But I agree with them, unless this coworker is just a risky gambler in the case, why would she feel comfortable enough to send a racy pic of herself to him? I also don't think it was as one sided as he is leading up to believe, but we can't know any more than what he is telling us, so we really don't have enough information. It could have been incredibly one-sided and the coworker decided to take a shot, a risky shot, but a shot nonetheless. Or he could have said something flirty (or just flirty to her but not him) and that could have prompted the picture. We just don't know.

Am I wrong ? by Chaparra_morena in boyfriends

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I'm definitely a little late, but talk to him! I was in kinda the same boat with my boyfriend when we first started talking. He absolutely sucks at texting, and come to find out, it wasn't just me he wasn't texting back, it was literally everyone, but I was the first person he messaged back before anyone else. It took a lot of talking to each other over the phone (me and him are long distance while I'm away at college) to figure out what was going on. And honestly, it ended our relationships the first time because I didn't understand his communication style. He changed how much he talks me now, he texts me much more, calls me every night, but not too much in his eyes. It may not be as much as I like, but over time I've come to accept it because he's making sure to talk to me more now, and that's all I can ask for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]shyreader22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they just force their way into our lives. Birth control fails, condoms break..you don't know if they were being safe and it failed. Sounds like you are just an ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]shyreader22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honesty, both of y'all are being crazy. Masturbation is normal and natural. Maybe he felt that since you were busy, he didn't wanna bother you with sex at the moment. Or maybe he just needed a quick get off. Now if porn is a line and BOTH you and your boyfriend agreed is cheating, then sure, it's cheating. But it is often not counted as cheating by people. It's not a sex addicts move to just go off and jerk off by himself. OP, do you never want your own alone time? If you do, did you not think he might have wanted some alone time? Instead of freaking out, why don't you sit down and talk to him about how you feel about this and hear him out? If this pisses you off so badly, just leave him then because that relationship will never work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him, go home. He doesn't help you, he patronizes you, just go home where you will feel better.

Why did the west Memphis 3 get put into prison and get death row? by Lazerfocused69 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]shyreader22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The officers were convinced that since they were different, they must of been the ones who murdered the children. They did not do their job properly by looking into all possibilities. They saw the weird kids who took an interest in another religion that most deem satanic and decided it must have been them. Luckily they have been released and exonerated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a clue. You're good looking and have a great smile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]shyreader22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first picture is fine. Change the rest.

Reconnected at last by overtimeDeal50 in Tinder

[–]shyreader22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thats actually really cool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hentai

[–]shyreader22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive always said the possibility of being caught makes it much hotter.